20d • General discussion
Burn the List!
We are conditioned to believe that if we don't have a "Plan" for January, we are failing. So we write down the same goals we write every year:
•"Make $10k months."
•"Post on Instagram every day."
•"Wake up at 5 AM."
But here is the Human Design truth: Most of your goals are not yours. They are your Open Centers screaming for safety.
When we set goals from our "Not-Self," we are setting ourselves up for burnout because we are chasing energy we don't consistently have.
The Not-Self Audit:
Look at your 2026 goals list. Now, ask yourself where that goal came from.
•Open Heart (Willpower): "I need to hit this income goal to prove I’m successful/worthy."
•Open Sacral (Work/Life Force): "I need to do more and work harder so I don't look lazy."
•Open Solar Plexus (Emotion): "I need to be a 'nice' brand so no one gets mad at me."
•Open Head/Ajna (Ideas/Certainty): "I need to have the perfect strategy figured out right now."
If a goal feels heavy, tight, or frantic... it’s likely not yours. It’s conditioning.
Your Assignment:
1.Look at your list.
2.Find ONE goal that feels like "pressure" or "proving."
3.Cross it out. (Or literally burn the paper if you’re feeling dramatic 😉).
Comment below: What is ONE thing you are releasing this week?
Let’s clear the space before we try to fill it. ✨
#AntiResolution #HumanDesign #NotSelf #BurnTheList #AmbitionByDesign
P.S. If you’re looking at your chart and thinking, "I have no idea which centers are open or where I’m leaking energy," we can map that out together.
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