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DAY 25 — Meaning Begins Before Life Feels Better
DAY 25 — Meaning Begins Before Life Feels Better
One of the most misunderstood ideas in recovery is this:
“Once things improve, then I’ll find meaning.”
But recovery rarely works that way.
Meaning doesn’t arrive after the pain eases. It begins forming while things are still uncomfortable.
In Finding Purpose in the Middle of Addiction, we see how purpose often shows up quietly — not as motivation, but as orientation.
You may still struggle. You may still feel uncertain. You may still have days that feel heavy.
And yet…
You start choosing honesty over escape. You begin pausing instead of reacting. You notice yourself caring — even when it hurts.
That’s meaning.
Not as inspiration, but as direction.
Meaning is what allows discomfort to be tolerated without numbing. It gives pain a place to go instead of somewhere to run from.
This is why two people can be equally sober —but only one feels alive.
The difference isn’t willpower. Its why they’re staying.
Recovery doesn’t just remove something from your life. It slowly answers the question:
“What is worth staying present for?”
And once that question matters, the nervous system settles.The brain steadies.The future becomes imaginable again.
Not perfect — but possible.
Reflection
Take a quiet moment and ask yourself:
- Where in my life am I waiting to “feel better” before allowing meaning in?
- What small choice have I made recently that reflects direction, not comfort?
- If I didn’t need today to feel good, what would still make it worth staying present for?
You don’t need clarity yet.Just honesty.
Meaning often begins there
Yours in Recovery,
Dr Emmanuel Oyebanre
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DAY 25 — Meaning Begins Before Life Feels Better
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