Welcome to IM Star (Inner Mastery Star). This is a community to help children achieve their potential through inner mastery. Before you do anything else, book a free onboarding call to address the main problem you're having. Book a free onboarding call here. Second, introduce yourself to the community by commenting on the post. Why is it important to you that your child, or a child, attains "inner mastery?" Once those two things are done, check out these resources: Presence & Emotional Safety- The Answer to Helping Our Children Become Tomorrow's Leaders Teacher Zee- Origin Story (How I came to this Work)

As a society, as a people, and as a parent (all these terms are irrelevant)- at the fundamental level of our being- we've been taught to live in our "Head." Our entire operating principle- has gone from living in our heart (the way our children still do)- to at some point, living mostly in our head. We do this out of fear- it is the response to our fear of staying/being in our body- when things get difficult- we resort to "Thought" to make ourselves feel better- And we do the same thing with our kids- "But you're still good at math! (they're upset they got a C in science) You Did win that trophy Saturday! (They missed a soccer goal 2 days later on Monday) You're getting your own room soon, don't worry!" (They're frustrated they have to share a room with their sibling) Even if it is less archaic than, distracting your 3 year old with ice cream (as in, it makes more "sense" what you're saying/doing)- You're missing something completely- and that is being present with them in the experience they are having- We fail to do this because in truth, the experience they are having makes US uncomfortable- And in truth, it is perhaps the most difficult out of anyone that you watch in life struggle- for that to be your own child. BUT, as difficult as it is, the BEST and ONLY TRUE way to help them- is to meet them in the experience they are having In that difficult feeling- "You did get a C, huh? Gosh, that must have blown. I know how hard you studied for that test." "Tell me more about when you missed that soccer goal." "I'm so glad you're telling me about this- it sounds Really frustrating." What they really want is-- what we ALL want- to be seen, felt, and heard. And ultimately to not be alone in their experience. So often we resort to "fixing" things for them- which in turn makes them less resilient adults. Because they were never "taught" to "be" in the difficult feeling, to sit with that difficult emotion, and to truly "experience" their experience.

So often we try with the "wrong" people and we don't realize it. We don't realize that we're actually trying to convince them because.. we don't believe enough in our own truth. yikes. is that not a hard pill to swallow.... You see the problem isn't them. Actually, When you see clearly, you realize it was just about letting go where you were once bound-- to your own disbelief of your Self. So that person You spent all your energy convincing becomes the mirror to your own Deepening- deepening in your Truth. So I just say, thank you

Hi there. It’s an honor to have you here. Sometimes life leaves me speechless- and this work happens to do that most of all Though I’ve loved writing for over a decade now, more and more the words dissolve to silence And all that’s left is a feeling. I want you to know how much I treasure you- what an honor it is to be alive at the same time- and to be doing this work of a lifetime. Many of us have had upbringings that were not easy- some of us- far from easy- And perhaps the most rewarding things in life come out of the most pain. The greatest joys even. And so, if you’re here, and it wasn’t easy for you, and it still isn’t easy for you- I see you, I hold you, I Be with you. Life has shown me again and again, there’s a light at the end of the tunnel. Sometimes I waited decades for the light. Whatever took me all my life until now to realize, I am sharing, giving away, trying my best to be completely depleted of every single thing that I know. Trying wholeheartedly to be emptied at the end of each day. And you give me that- you all give me that. You give my life ultimate meaning. The meaning that up until now, my life has been shaping me for. This movement is the culmination of my life from the moment I was born. The things I knew intuitively, the things I felt, and the things I had to come to understand- To be at peace, to be free- to shine brightly. I invite you on this journey- as I hope that yours, and your daughter’s will be a fraction of the time it took me. And that as you grow and learn everything I know, that you surpass me- That you become the next leaders of light, wisdom, compassion, understanding. That you may change the world, in greater ways that even I did. Welcome to the most wondrous community for women, young and old. May we hold our light and deepen in our truth, and serve until there is no me and you.