Growing up in Pittsburgh my dad raised me to be a Pittsburgh team sports fan. I was at the game against the Ravens this weekend. As you all probably know it was typical Steelers - Ravens. Usually a struggle to the end.

Let's get to know each other! Comment below sharing where you are in the world, a photo of you , and something you like to do for fun. 😊 This post contains important information about getting the most out of this community, so please read through everything before you start. 👓 ✨ Read Through Our Community Guidelines ✨ First and foremost, please read through our Community Guidelines to ensure this remains a valuable, supportive space for everyone. Quick Summary: - Be respectful and kind - No soliciting or self-promotion - Keep it relevant to dating/relationships - Protect privacy - no sharing screenshots - What's shared here, stays here 📈 How To Earn Points, Level Up & Unlock Rewards 📈 Our community is designed around participation. You'll unlock new resources and perks as you engage, support, and help other members. How Points Work: - One 'like' = One point - The more you interact and contribute quality content, the more points you earn - Your level is shown at the bottom right of your avatar picture - Points needed for next level shown under your avatar on your profile page 💎 Important Note About DMs 💎 The ability to DM other community members is unlocked at Level 2 (Cotton). So if you want to stay connected and build relationships in this community, start earning your first points now! Please contact me with any comments, suggestions, or questions. I read everything! Let's reboot your love life together, Dessi 💕

Let's talk about wellness. Do you have a routine wellness practice? Daily or weekly activity, hobby or practice that keeps your body mentally and/or physically feeling good? It could be a walk, a hike, a class at the gym, yoga, meditation, journaling, massage, dance...Anything that helps you feel alive, vibrant or improves your mindset. What's your go to?

I still love Seinfeld and am surprised by people who say then never found it funny. It seems that people either love it or hate it. I guess Kathy GriffIn hates it. LOL

Emotions don’t just happen to us. They’re created by the thoughts we practice...often on autopilot. When we don’t like how we’re feeling, the work isn’t to control the emotion. It’s to get curious about the thought behind it. Can you identify it? You can’t always choose what happens. But you can choose the story you keep telling yourself about it. And that choice changes everything: - How long you stay stuck - How quickly you recover - How open you are to a new possibility Reflection question: What’s one thought you have about your dating life right now that is not serving you that you would like to swap for a slightly more empowering thought? Not perfect, just kinder? Let me know in the comments. Example: Disempowering thought: I doubt I will ever find my person. More empowering thoughts: It is possible for me to find someone. I am growing and learning about myself through all of my past experiences. If finding love is possible for X (person you know), it could be possible for me. etc.