Stepping Into Fear at Nearly 50 — And Bringing My Girls With Me
🌄 Stepping Into Fear at Nearly 50 — And Bringing My Girls With Me As I’m getting older — nearly 50 now — I’ve noticed something creeping into my life that never used to be there: small limiting beliefs, quiet fears, little hesitations that try to keep me comfortable. Nothing dramatic. Just subtle things like: • Choosing to stay home instead of travelling for work • Putting off opportunities because they feel “a bit much” • Even developing a mild fear of flying… despite the fact that when I was younger, I learned how to fly and absolutely loved it It’s strange how comfort can become a cage without us noticing. But here’s the thing: I want to lead by example for my girls. We talk a lot about courage, growth, and breaking through fear — and I realised I wasn’t modelling it as much as I want to. Recently we were all chatting about our fears, and “fear of heights” came up for every one of us. So I thought… Time to do something about it. So next Tuesday, I’ve booked the girls and I in for a bungee jump at The Highland Fling in Pitlochry, Scotland. Yes. A bungee jump. Yes. My heart is already racing writing this. But that’s the point. We’re going to use NLP anchoring techniques, reframing, and coaching each other through the build‑up, the fear, and the breakthrough. I want them to feel what it’s like to step into something scary and come out the other side stronger. And I want to feel that again too. 🎥 I’m going to try to go LIVE for the jump So if you want to see the results — the fear, the laughter, the wobbling legs, the breakthrough — tune in: 📅 Monday, 25 May 2026 🕜 13:30–14:30 If you’ve been feeling fear creeping in as you get older… or if you’ve been avoiding something you know would stretch you… maybe this is your sign to take one small step outside your comfort zone. Growth doesn’t stop with age — unless we let it.