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Zach Watson
Nov '25 •
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What emotion is causing Defensiveness?
Usually when I get defensive I am unwilling to feel or communicate one of my emotions. Which of these do you think is the most common one that causes you or your partner to get defensive? Anger- Shame - Guilt - Fear - Lonely - Sad - Hurt -
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Travis Mann
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Shame as well. Then I get defensive. Or I do what a CEO taught me a long time ago: just lay in the ditch for a while. Stare at your shoes
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Greetings. I am a 62-year-old, retired college professor. My wife and I are looking for ways to enhance our conversations and better our relationship
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