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120 contributions to Real Men Real Style Community
OOTD Friday October 30th
Perry Ellis Green polo over Vertx dark wash jeans. Brown Anson belt with silver buckle and brown Thursday President boots. Vincero S2 Chronograph green dial watch. Lots of much needed rain today. 8 day cruise begins tomorrow. Will be testing my dice control skills and need some luck!
OOTD Friday October 30th
8 likes • 13d
Those are killer boots, I have them in black coffee- excellent Anson belt too sir.
Inspo from RMRS Facebook.
I saw this post on the RMRS FB and was inspired to put it into action. I have been getting compliments all day at work. I work in a very business casual environment, so I stand out in a positive way, wearing sport coats & blazers when I am in the office as well as a tie on Tuesdays.
Inspo from RMRS Facebook.
1 like • Sep 16
@Chad Smith Thank you! I put my medium brown oxfords & the chili museum brown loafers next to the jacket. The winner was obvious.
OOTD Tuesday September 15th
Twillory Cotton dress shirt over tan Vertx pants with black Anson belt with silver buckle and black Tecovas boots. Invicta Dive watch and Eros edt. Had to change into my uniform for City Council security. Put on my Vincero Karios dress watch. The Invicta doesn't go with the Class A.
OOTD Tuesday September 15th
7 likes • Sep 16
Classic style!
Why Do Good Things Happen To Bad People?
Why do bad things happen to good people? Anthony Buntyn says that question is backwards - and the answer changes everything. If you have ever wrestled with grief, anger, or the feeling that God has forgotten you, this episode offers a blunt, faith-filled reframing of suffering, grace, and what it really means to endure loss. Anthony opens up about losing his mother, sister, and niece within 18 months, and how that season of devastation forced him to confront the hardest questions believers ask in private. From there, he walks through a radical shift in perspective: Scripture does not point to "good people" getting bad outcomes, but to all of us living under sin and sustained by grace. What looks unfair on the surface may be part of a deeper reality we cannot see. You'll discover: - Why the real question is not "Why do bad things happen to good people?" - How grace, not circumstance, explains the difference between lasting peace and temporary pleasure - What Revelation and other scriptures say about death, timing, and preordained moments - Why suffering does not mean God has abandoned you - How the choice to respond with faith, patience, and humility changes the way you carry pain Anthony also shares how his own journey toward becoming a "gentleman of faith" was shaped by more than belief - it was shaped by how he carried himself, dressed, spoke, and represented his family and his faith in public. He explains how the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen helped him grow in confidence, etiquette, discipline, and brotherhood, and why that community matters for men trying to live with purpose. This episode is for anyone grieving a loss, questioning God's justice, or trying to make sense of why life can feel so unfair. It is also a call to men who want more than passive faith - men ready to grow in character, live with intention, and find strength in grace. If you need a honest reminder that you are not alone and that grace still meets you in the dark places, this one is worth your time.
Why Do Good Things Happen To Bad People?
2 likes • Aug 26
My brother, this is excellent. I do a mindful Monday thought at work and my thought this week was discussing how bad things don’t just happen to good people they happen to everyone. The way good people respond is the difference. Thank you for sharing this. Faith, dignity & intentional living are indeed gentlemanly qualities.
Tie Tuesday
I work in a business casual- very casual - workplace. A few months ago I decided to take it next level from dressing one step up to two and three steps up. One step up the business casual we usually share here. It’s the baseline we here in RMRS hold ourselves to. My second level is wearing a blazer or sport coat, dress shirt and shoes for in office days A couple other men & I agreed to do Tie Tuesday as the third level. It’s noticed, appreciated and it’s spreading. Set the example men. Today’s fit- Jos A Bank Italian linen-cotton blend sport coat Charles Tyrwhitt twill dress shirt Silk tie- vintage, that I purchased from a local privately owned men’s shop - now closed. Going strong 2 decades later. Chinos-Amazon Essentials Allen Edmonds pewter suede Randolph penny loafers Belt - Anson leather, silver classic buckle Watch- Seiko Presage Cocktail Time- Blue Moon. No show socks.
Tie Tuesday
1 like • Aug 25
@Anthony Buntyn Thank you my friend. It is our responsibility as gentlemen to do so. 👍🏻
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