Start with connection!! Instead of giving what you think is your best ADVICE for pregame jitters try connecting with your kid and reminding them that how much you love them and support them has absolutely nothing to do with their actual performance or the results of the game. Right now my toddlers are 3 and 4 and just getting started with the idea of learning new skills in sports. My favorite line to use with them right now before we try something new or challenging is simply: “I LOVE TO WATCH YOU PLAY AND TRY NEW THINGS” Imagine you were in the car right now with your kid and they had a huge game to play. What would you say to replace ADVICE with CONNECTION?