I guess it's also because we're often busy too... oh, and there's one other thing... if you've ever tried to run a men's group (I try and part run a men's Christian group where I am) getting 'blokes' together for almost anything, even if we're all good pals to some degree, is like herding cats! That might be a little off topic but I think it has some bearing on most guys. I'm trying to learn 'Fire' by Hendrix at the moment. It's not particularly difficult but my health is often not good and I have 'house husband' duties too. I also go through phases where I play rhythm for a bit, then the Flamenco guitar then back to my Fender electric. I've even tried goodness knows how many times to get jams together but in spite of the fact me and my mates have a lot of decent equipment, we're all fairly good and at least proficient, nobody puts their hat in the ring, so to speak. It's a shame as I love jamming with other people. Anyway, sorry for the waffle!