Hello ladies, I’m sharing a personal story today. 2022 was hands down the worst year of my life. I was fired from a toxic job and had a mental breakdown that almost killed me. I fell into the deepest depression I’ve ever known and was out of work for almost 2 years because I was mentally incapable of holding a job. This led to the birth of my depression recovery course (still in the works) When I healed and my mental health improved, I started applying for jobs but consistently got rejections. I applied for jobs beneath my pay grade and experience because I was willing to accept anything (cheap energy behavior) I was met with rejection there too. I felt utterly defeated. It had been 7 months of interviews and applications to no avail until, finally I landed a promising opportunity. I was asked my pay expectation and guess what? I completely low balled myself and said $90K/year only to find out the starting pay for the role was $120K/year. Expensive women don’t settle for ‘just enough’ and I always say God doesn’t want me to settle. Every time I settle, it never works out. I was able to turn things around with God’s help and they eventually offered me a $130K/year base pay. The lesson in this? Lowering your standards, pricing and expectations because no one is applauding/buying what you’re selling isn’t ideal. Expensive women move from a place of certainty and security no matter what their reality portrays. I promised to never low ball myself like that again. Where have you been in ‘cheap energy’ and unpriced/undercharged your value, worth or services? Sound off below🧚🏾‍♀️

Hello ladies, A lot of us in here work a day job. I do too. I ensure I look my best going to work not because I’m trying to impress others but as a form of self respect and putting myself first. Expensive women understand the power of appearance. They use their looks to attract not distract. By looking my best everyday for work, 👩🏾‍💻Uneccessary work passes me by 👩🏾‍💻Men and women are QUICK to assist me 👩🏾‍💻I’m taken more seriously when I speak 👩🏾‍💻I feel and attract more opportunities 👩🏾‍💻My expensive energy repels overworking opportunities 👩🏾‍💻I’m not resentful because I’m not over giving or working from a deficit. Do you dress up for work and if no, what’s your challenge? Sound off below and here’s my look of the day❣️

Hello ladies, Welcome to my Soft Living Society, I'm SO excited to have you here and help you feel, look and be expensive! About me I was born in America but grew up in Nigeria before moving to the States at 16 for boarding school and college. I've always been passionate about fashion and style and I had a business in college selling African print clothing. I love all things style, self-care, beauty + health and I've been told by many people how great my style is and how well I care for myself. I have been told and consider myself High Maintenance. Why I started my community LAJA stands for the initials of my name (Lisa Ashan-wa Joannah Aliogo). I birthed this community as a safe space for women to be unapologetically high maintenance - in their groom, presentation and standards. I want every woman to feel worthy of support, luxury and quality and let go of "cheap" energy (constantly self-sacrificing, over-giving, over-explaining, people pleasing etc) What you will gain from my community You will gain mindset and knowledge on growing your relaxed hair, loosing weight and blitzing belly fat, embracing your feminine biology & rhythm, finance & investing. I have a personal network I will be bringing on to share their expertise on topics ranging from skincare to investing, relaxed hair and more. I'm happy you're here and for what's in store. Please introduce yourself and let me what questions you have❣️

For my ladies (like me) working a 9-5 job. How is your desk space? Is it intentionally curated or just plain as the day you walked into you job? Decorating your workspace (even if you don’t want to be there) 💻Calms your nervous system because you’re surrounded by beauty and order 💻Visually communicates your care and attention to details. Remember communication is 80% subconscious - even in the workplace 💻Encourages productivity because you feel safe in your designated space 💻Subconsciously trains people to help you because you demonstrate that you pour care into yourself and surroundings Here are ways I organize my desk to attract success 👩🏾‍💻Pick a color theme: I chose pink because it communicates pampering and ‘please me’ energy on a subconscious level. People view me as dainty and as a result unnecessary work passes me by. Pick a color that helps you feel expensive and cared for. Gold, yellow, green, orange are also good colours. 👩🏾‍💻Add (real or fake) flowers: I have pink forever roses on my desk and a fake plant. Roses symbolize love and expensive women are paid premium to do what they love. Roses attract love energy 💕 👩🏾‍💻Adding Prosperity trinkets: Add a trinket or photo that reminds you of prosperity and abundance. Your thoughts become reality. On my desk, I have a crystal money plant with crystals known to attract abundance like pyrite, green aventurine and citrine. 👩🏾‍💻Cleanliness: Every Friday, I wipe my desk down with Lysol and anoint it with prosperity anointing oil. Cleanliness is next to godliness and demonstrates good stewardship of our belongings. This brings more abundance our way. 👩🏾‍💻Scripting: I’m a believer in scripting and you can check my expensive energy scripting prompts below. I do this daily without fail before work to regulate myself for the day. https://www.skool.com/lajas-soft-living-society-7130/classroom/c13eb361?md=e4cce789d08248e597cea4966306517e