The time I wasn’t so expensive😔
Hello ladies,
I’m sharing a personal story today.
2022 was hands down the worst year of my life. I was fired from a toxic job and had a mental breakdown that almost killed me.
I fell into the deepest depression I’ve ever known and was out of work for almost 2 years because I was mentally incapable of holding a job. This led to the birth of my depression recovery course (still in the works)
When I healed and my mental health improved, I started applying for jobs but consistently got rejections.
I applied for jobs beneath my pay grade and experience because I was willing to accept anything (cheap energy behavior)
I was met with rejection there too.
I felt utterly defeated. It had been 7 months of interviews and applications to no avail until, finally I landed a promising opportunity.
I was asked my pay expectation and guess what? I completely low balled myself and said $90K/year only to find out the starting pay for the role was $120K/year.
Expensive women don’t settle for ‘just enough’ and I always say God doesn’t want me to settle. Every time I settle, it never works out.
I was able to turn things around with God’s help and they eventually offered me a $130K/year base pay.
The lesson in this? Lowering your standards, pricing and expectations because no one is applauding/buying what you’re selling isn’t ideal.
Expensive women move from a place of certainty and security no matter what their reality portrays.
I promised to never low ball myself like that again.
Where have you been in ‘cheap energy’ and unpriced/undercharged your value, worth or services?
Sound off below🧚🏾‍♀️
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Ashan-wa Aliogo
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The time I wasn’t so expensive😔
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