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Stop performing ‘fine.’ Reconnect with the people who matter most in a candid men's community with practical tools and no alpha posturing.

25 contributions to Skool First 100
👻 Ghost Hunt: Bring Back the Dead
every community has them. it could be people who join and never posted/comments. could be someone who did it once and ghosted you. or even people who were active once, and then disappeared. this weekend - we fix that 👻 GHOST HUNT is going Friday to Sunday (so you have plenty of time) GOAL - send at least 10 real DMs to your quiet members then, come back here and report how many you brought back from the dead 🪦 Best DM script wins 🎁 FIRST, find your ghosts. there are three kinds. 1. BABY BOOS 🐣 - joined in the last 7-14 days. never posted, commented or opened a class. how to find them: Leaderboards → Level 1 → click the percentage link start with the ones who are ONLINE now (green dot on their photo). WHAT TO SEND: a real hello and one question about... 2. POLTERGEISTS 🎃 - joined, made a little noise. an intro, a comment or two. then vanished. how to find them: Leaderboards → Level 2 and Level 3 → click the percentage link again, start with whoever is online now. WHAT TO SEND: mention the thing they posted. say that you miss them. ask a question about... 3. FALLEN ANGELS 😈 - they used to show up. comments, wins, replies. lately - nothing. how to find them: Leaderboards → Level 4 and up → click the percentage link online now first. WHAT TO SEND: tell them you noticed and miss them. no guilt or shame. ask how they’re doing and what's going on in their life === HOW TO CHECK IF THEY GONE QUIET - click their profile. - click Contributions for your community. - check the date of their last post or comment. === THE RULES - real means you wrote it for that person. - no copy-paste welcome blast. no link. no offer. - one human talking to another human. == 10 DMs is maybe 30 minutes. one reply can turn into your next active member, or your next client. if your community is brand new and you don’t have 10 ghosts yet, message 10 people who liked your posts and never joined. same rules. READY TO GO? 😈
👻 Ghost Hunt: Bring Back the Dead
3 likes • 6d
@Ettjen Jansingh I escalate. DM, Email, phone... if someone doesn't respond to any of those, it's there choice and they like being a ghost I guess. There's nothing more to do.
2 likes • 5d
I sent 10 each day on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. Got 1 reply on Friday, 3 on Saturday, and 4 on Sunday. All who replied had multiple DMs with me, and one man began posting in the community again. The higher they ranked on the leaderboard, the more likely I was to hear from them again. Most who stopped said they stopped in most communities. I wrote a short, specific post each time. Along the lines of "Hey NAME, I miss your comments and energy in Authentic AF. How have you been?" and a silly "you there?" gif.
Failure Wednesday Celebration 🎉
everyone celebrates wins. wins are good. we want them. but the road to success is paved with failures, many, many, of them. so, we are here normalizing failures. no. we are not just normalizing, we are celebrating them. what is failure? FAILURE is an action - something you did - and the result was not what you expected/wanted to be. Capiche? we are NOT: - celebrating procrastination - celebrating waiting for someone or smth to save us with that... what's your FAILURE from last week that you should celebrate - and we can celebrate together? as always, i will start
Failure Wednesday Celebration 🎉
3 likes • 10d
@Ettjen Jansingh I'm in a group of people who committed to the 100 days, but I have no problem just picking it up again.
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@Kate DuBois I totally agree. I'm returning to Vegas for two more Metallica shows at the end of the month and this time I'll put no pressure on myself to maintain business as usual every day.
Skool News | Axe Verdict
it's that time again. as always, you can find all Skool News issues, including the latest, in the Vault. - someone just got to 1Mln MRR. wow or not?! i am curious, how much this motivates you? vote below 👇🏻 - Growth Boost is in turbulence mode (SURPRISE-SURPRISE). whatever that means. hence, do not rely on it (PLEASE don't) - reviews are ON for everyone. GOOD! but... be careful, if you have a free or freemium community. cause ... just like mine with 740+ member i only got 2 reviews. it could actually bring your conversion down. - few more improvements for reviews: better tracking how many months someone is paying + moderation (ppl can report a review) , and they want to do a better sorting of reviews - all very good!!! - videos now have auto-generated captions and transcript in different languages. GOOD! Skoolers Classroom Update - interviews with ppl who got $150k+ MRR. IDK i will comment in the comments once i watch those interview. but... my fear, it is not useful for 99% of us. cause we are miles away... and what we should do is way different from what these ppl do. anywho. for now, i just want to say that i don't think "one number" can be the "only number". cause how many rich & successful ppl are not happy? i can name a few. anyway. good things. bad things. nah things. that's life.
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Skool News | Axe Verdict
5 likes • Sep 2
I find it inspiring overall. Proof that there are no limits, but it doesn't change what I do day to day.
I want to say smth…
smth that people don’t say that often. cause they show you the shiny side of the story. and forget about the other side. the dark side of the moon. cause… building a business is hard. f*cking hard. and lonely. so. If you ever feel the need to talk, DM me. does not matter the level. that’s all. no pitch. no catch. open door
I want to say smth…
3 likes • Aug 21
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Do What Others Won't: How to Make Your Community Unignorable
if you're copying someone else's formula, there is no way you stand out. templates are great. "what works" is great. but when your community looks like everyone else's, you compete on price. and competing on price is a race to the bottom. not the race you want to be in. John Hegarty wrote it on a Levi's ad in 1982: "when the world zigs, zag." a black sheep walking against a flock of white ones. that's the whole strategy. especially when you're starting out — focus on what other people don't do. automations save you time. i use them. but they suck the soul out of interactions. they'll save you hours and keep you dry. your goal in the beginning isn't efficiency. it's to get people to love you. to turn them into ambassadors. the famous 100-1000 true fans. the key word is FANS, not the number. you don't get fans by being optimized. you get fans by doing the crazy stuff nobody else will bother with. here's what that looks like for me: - everyone celebrates wins. i celebrate failures. - people run calls in their own time zone. i run mine to catch my APAC friends and my US/Canada friends. even if one person shows up in the Community Income Mastermind. - i send personal welcome messages, not automated ones. and when i do send an automated message, i tell you it's automated. - i offer 1:1 welcome calls in a free community. makes zero sense on a spreadsheet. makes total sense to the person on the call. - i publish my real numbers - conversion rates, retention, the maths - including the unflattering ones. - i answer questions with a recorded video when a text reply would take two minutes. because you hearing my voice is worth more than my two minutes. none of this my competitors do. that's the point. when you do what others won't or don't, you stop competing on price. you become UNIGNORABLE. you stand the f*ck out. what do you already do differently?
Do What Others Won't: How to Make Your Community Unignorable
3 likes • Aug 20
@Lidia Axe Make my days 26 hours long perhaps? 😂
2 likes • Aug 20
@Zena Ryder No. I just shoot on my phone and pass it on.
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I help successful men who feel miserable escape The Success Trap | Host of Real Men Feel podcast | TheAndyGrant.com/talk

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