You Don't Have Problems. You Have Stories. I heard something recently that really made me stop and think: "You don't have problems. You have stories." The quality of your life is often determined by the quality of the conversations you have with yourself. Think about some of the stories people carry: "I'm not good enough." "I'm not worthy." "Nobody loves me." "I'm not smart enough." "I'm always going to struggle." The interesting thing is that these stories are rarely facts. They're interpretations. Yet because we believe them, we start looking for evidence to prove them right. We notice every failure. We magnify every setback. We dismiss every success. Over time, the story becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. We call it self-sabotage. But perhaps it's simply a person acting in alignment with the identity they have accepted as true. You cannot consistently produce results that are out of alignment with your wiring. You will always gravitate back to who you believe you are. This is why lasting change is not about trying harder. It's about becoming different. Whether the challenge is your health, your finances, your relationships, your confidence, or your happiness, the question is not: "How do I get rid of this problem?" The question is: "Who do I need to become so that this is no longer a problem in my life?" That shift changes everything. Because it moves you from being a victim of your circumstances to becoming the creator of your future. Instead of saying: "This is just the way I am." You begin asking: "What if I've simply been living inside an old story?" We are creative beings. We have the ability to rewrite the stories we tell ourselves. To change our identity. To create different actions. To produce different results. And perhaps that is where real transformation begins. Just a Sunday afternoon thought… What is one story about yourself that you’ve finally decided to stop believing? And what new story are you choosing to live instead?👇

For the future I will look at getting closer to my new Identity and be a new person in 90 Days with a new outlook on life.

👉🏽My 90 day Vision: Strengthened systems and structures to reinforce and support my new identity. Daily focus on strengthening and solidifying my mindset and new identity. My vision for the next 90 days is, Health: Stronger, leaner and in the best shape of my life to raise my goals.Mental clarity and reduce stress levels. Career: Improve my skills and build my team to become a team of excellence. Become a certified NLP Life coach. Finances: Create strong a strong positive emergency fund with at 2 months of net income. Remove wasteful expenditure and become a better steward of my finances. Relationships: Open communication in my marriage, filled with compassion, love, joy. Deeper connections with my people. More meaningful interactions. Personal growth: Be more organised and structured in my daily life. Continue to create an environment that helps me maintain a strong positive abundance mindset. 👉🏽My Top Priorities: Health: Body is stronger and healthier than ever to focus on and realise my vision Career: Improving my skills of the trade so I am the best I can be. Finances: Be a good steward of money by removing wasteful expenditure Relationships: I have more meaningful interactions with those closest to me Personal Growth: I AM becoming a Certified NLP Life Coach that has real impact on people’s lives My Daily Actions: Success is built on every decision I make and intentional action I take consistently, everyday… Train and exercise my body Learn and read to sharpen my skills Review and track my finances Check in with family and friends Work towards my NLP Life coaching certification 👉🏽When I’ll Do Them: Health - I will do this in the morning before work Career - I will do this in the evening after spending time with the family Finances - I will do this in the middle of the work. Relationships - I will check in with the family after the work day Personal Growth: I will do this in the morning before training. 👉🏽My Commitment: I commit to be consistent in my actions everyday. I AM aware of my self talk and old patterns of distraction and overthinking. I build systems and structure as tools to help me execute the actions that drive me towards my goals. I reflect daily on where I am, what worked and what didn’t. I AM in control of my thoughts and emotions.

I am someone who faces what drains me because then i can start working on changing it

Welcome! This community is here to help you stop starting over and finally become the person you keep promising yourself you’ll be. 𝗜𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝘁𝘆, 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗹𝗹 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼: 🧠 Rebuild your identity 🔥 Develop real consistency 💪 Transform your mind & body 🎯 Create lasting habits and discipline 🌍 Surround yourself with people who are growing with you 𝗛𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗻𝗲𝘅𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗽𝘀 👇 ✅ Start With the Welcome Course ✅ Next dive into the Science of Success Video course - This lays the foundation ✅ Join the next I AM 84 Challenge ✅ Join the weekly live coaching & Q&A calls ✅ Introduce yourself: Tell us your: • Name • Country • Biggest goal for the next 84 days 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝘆 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲: Ask questions, share wins, support others, stay accountable, and fully commit to your transformation. Remember: This isn’t about motivation. It’s about identity. To your transformation, Barry Schutte & JP van der Schyff PS: What’s your biggest goal for the next 30 days?