The Relationship Pattern I Am Working On: Allowing myself to react to comments that leaves me feeling judged and needing to over explain myself. How It Affects My Energy: My energy is disturbed and aggravated. How It Affects My Behavior: I find myself reacting to situations out of frustration and not being able to think clearly. One Area of My Life It Is Affecting: It affects my self confidence and I find myself giving less of myself. My Biggest Realization: My biggest realisation is that there are certain relationships that I given so much of myself to that, at times I feel like I am not in control of my senses. Today I proved: I AM someone who sees my relationship patterns clearly because the awareness of patterns enables the clarity to consciously break or interrupt these patterns and control the my response. This allows me to show up more for myself and for my relationships.