Here are a few gentle ways you could speak to your friend or family āeach one simple, sincere, and full of care. You can choose the one that feels most like you, or adapt the words in your own voice Iām so sorry youāre going through this. You donāt have to carry it aloneāIām here with you, whatever you need. āI donāt have the right words, but I care deeply about you. Iām holding you in my thoughts and Iām here to listen, or just sit quietly, anytime. āThinking of you with so much love. Iām hereāalways."