We are close so we take turns switching locations. It works well. That way everyone feels included in all the activities. And Yes @Elliott Rashed is right. I hate driving at night, not a safety issue, but my family will come to my place when they know it will be late. Love to everyone. Happy Holidays!

@Marsha Vacca Ha! I loved Bart when I was in the East bay, Walnut Creek in the late 70's Went to the City (SF) all the time. Funny!

So, I don't think age has anything to do with it. It is ability to react and not put yourself or others at risk. I know people in their 40's that shouldn't drive, and people in their 80's that are great drivers. LOL

I joined because I want to make sure I have things in order for my family when it is time. ;-O

@Elliott Rashed very true. I have been putting a book together, " I'm Dead, now what!". LOL but it gives all information on where and what accounts and insurance is. Who to contact specifically to either shut down businesses I have running, like affiliate marketing stuff, book publishing, or bookkeeping and legal document creation, how to keep them running. 😊You, Elliott are on that list for my stuff in GHL and Meta ads and maybe even Mailerlite, as my son doesn't even know I affiliate market ( or I should say am trying to affiliate market). So he would need to know how to keep it going or shut it down. One son, one heir. Nor would he have any idea how to shut down Mailerlite or FB ads so it was just continuing with the royalties and no more marketing?? I can tell you right NOW the first thing you Must do is to make arrangements on Who you would want to raise Sophie should something happen to you both simultaneously. A will with guardianship instructions. These are things I do for people, is design their will and provide it to them so they can save on attorney fees and just take the completed will to their attorney for perusal. Also a Medical POA and Financial PIA, as well as, a living DNR, is extremely important. Who makes those decisions if you cannot. I also provide those. All documents I provide, for a fee of course, are legal and by each State requirements. OK so much for that business of mine, (which I know you didn't know I do, nor do I market it🤨) Marsha is very good at this information and dealing with elderly issues many of which I am sure we do not even think of! I am here in this community to make sure I do not forget something. 🙃

Perhaps how do deal with the ageing's attitude. I went through H with my mom thinking I was just trying to take advantage of her after my Dad passed.

My favorite vacation spot was Australia, my favorite movie is On Golden Pond, and my favorite emoji is the US Flag which is not on here. ;-(