I Stopped Hopping & Started Trusting
I just read a post that struck a nerve in me. In the best way. It was about self-trust. And how we destroy it, piece by piece, as entrepreneurs. Here’s what hit me: I have good intuition. Really good intuition, actually. I can read people, spot patterns, sense when something’s off. But I’ve spent YEARS ignoring it. Because I thought the answer was out there somewhere - in the next course, the next framework, the next expert’s strategy. So I kept hopping. Trying things for a few weeks. Getting uncomfortable. Then burning it all down and starting over with someone else’s “proven method.” I told myself I was “learning” and “staying open.” But really? I was just avoiding trusting myself. Here’s what the author said that made me stop scrolling: “The reason my business wasn’t where I thought it should be wasn’t because I didn’t have the right strategy, niche, or messaging. It was because I didn’t trust myself to stay with a decision once it started to feel uncomfortable.” Oh. It wasn’t that I needed MORE information. I needed to stop running when things got hard. The rules she shared that I’m printing out today: ✔️ Don’t buy courses to be saved. Only buy to grow. ✔️ Don’t pivot until you’ve properly tested an idea. ✔️ When it feels uncomfortable, sit with it. Don’t burn it down. ✔️ Stop the impulse buying. Give yourself 24 hours. ✔️ Stop watching webinars and buying $7 courses. ✔️ When you drift, ask: does this bring my mission to life or pull me away from it? I’ve been in “learning mode” for so long, I forgot that building a business requires DOING mode. And doing requires trusting yourself enough to stay the course when your brain starts screaming “this isn’t working, try something new!” If you’re reading this and thinking “wait, is she in my head?” - you’re not alone. The shiny object syndrome, the expert-hopping, the strategy pivots… it’s not about discipline. It’s about self-trust. What would change if you just picked ONE thing and committed to it for 90 days?