One habit that i am still working on is choosing, at a first introduction, to see only the best in another person. It is not always easy, but the sentence that niw comes to my mind is " this person is doing the very best they can with the information they have". By doing that. The judgement stops instantly and I am forced to see that person in a different light than I traditionally would have. Then, whatever I have to offer comes not from judgment, but from vision.