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The Rise and Fall of Alan Watts 🔥
Here is my tribute to and my criticism of the enigmatic and wonderful Alan Watts. But what do you think 🧐 genius or fraud❓
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@Laara Hinnegan that is absolutely true. But not only young girls/women but boys as well. My brother was raped by the monk(s) at his Catholic boarding school and I was emotionally abused by the nuns at my Catholic boarding school. In both traditional and new 'seeker' cults truly morally reprehensible psychopaths charm their way into positions of some kind of authority and abuse the position with intent. I am very wary of all groups because, where the authority is abusive, some group members will align themselves with said authority and collude with it thus ignoring the abuse of other group members. In some cults even parents have ignored the abuse of their young children; 'The Children of God' as an example but it happens in many groups organised around religious/spiritual beliefs. Not just sexual abuse but horrific emotional abuse too. With online groups it is not so obvious unless you watch the dynamics develop with an inner magnifying glass. Contrary to that statement however it can be more obvious for people who have a professional experience and awareness or for people who've experienced such a dynamic many times and have broken through the status of victim into one of true awareness. Thank you for your comment.
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@Laara Hinnegan thank you for that. I'll look it up right away. I was hoping Bear Gryll's new book 'The greatest story ever told' would be along those lines but it is still based on the religious perspective... Thank you.
Why do all attempts at community seem to follow the same route?
I have seen and partaken in many spiritual groups over the last 40 years, most have systematically followed that same pattern of rise and collapse. I've tried to understand this from many points of view, spiritual, psychological, group dynamics, and others. All were interesting but left me unsatisfied and with the feeling that something was missing. A few years ago I discovered Complex Systems Theory and had a eureka moment. Human groups can be understood as Complex Adaptive Systems (CAS), composed of interacting agents whose local behaviors give rise to emergent global structures. Within such systems, certain individuals can become attractors—points around which attention, meaning, and coordination begin to organize. This dynamic is particularly visible in cult formation. From an initially diverse population, one agent emerges as a central attractor. Attention flows toward this individual in the form of praise, trust, and projection. In return, the leader produces meaning—“wisdom”—which reinforces the followers’ orientation toward them. A positive feedback loop is established: attention generates authority, and authority amplifies attention. As this loop intensifies, the system begins to close in on itself. Information that contradicts the internal structure is filtered out, while coherence within the system is reinforced. The group evolves toward an increasingly autonomous and self-referential organization, where alignment is rewarded and deviation is either corrected or rejected. What emerges is not merely social cohesion, but a form of dynamic enclosure. This process can be mapped onto the NSS/SOS landscape of consciousness. NSS (Non-Survival Sensations) correspond to openness, exploration, and the capacity to perceive the full landscape of experience. SOS (Survival-Oriented Sensations), by contrast, narrow the field around threat, control, and stability. In the early stages of group formation, NSS dynamics may dominate—curiosity, inspiration, a sense of shared meaning. But as the system grows in complexity and begins to protect its own structure, SOS dynamics increasingly take over.
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@Monika Richrath I saw this in the two societies based around Yogananda's teachings.
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In a simple analogous way, my experience of groups is like the beginning of any relationship: a cake where only the icing is initially seen and enjoyed until people get to the chewy fruit and nuts when they get lost in the disappointment of the hard work (a self inflated guru, a group of self satisfied 'insiders', a voice not being heard, lack of confidence to suggest an open conversation about said disappointment etc). There is an initial flurry of vulnerable hope and excitement which often dies because, as others here have said already, a large percentage of people join groups to gain something for themselves from the 'leader' without any understanding as to the nature of group dynamics and the need for community connectedness. Without this understanding the aforementioned vulnerable hope is easily deflated. On the other hand my knowledge of group dynamics (personally and professionally) has taught me to keep away from groups where said understanding appears not to be present. Thus this conversation has piqued my interest and I will follow the ongoing development of this group with an attentive curiosity. Thank you.
The ONLY way is through 🔥
For anyone going through a tough time. I have lost everything multiple times and had to start from zero. Here's what I learned and how it changed me... 👉 Question - how have tough times shaped the person you are today❓ https://youtu.be/ur1GPXRUJZw?is=z1EnHrWNok0jjlVQ
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It is almost a Sisyphean task (if you let it be) to hack your way out of such intense childhood core beliefs that are given to you by the people one sees as one's 'gods' (parents/primary caregivers) as a child. It can take many boulders before one decides "ok, I'm not holding on to this darned rock anymore"! I laugh now, thinking about this picture: lying for 100th time at the bottom of the mountain with the bloody boulder on my body laughing with glee that it's won again! So basically, eff the ruddy mountain and the smirking rock; just leave the thankless batardos and walk towards the sea😂!
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Sara Paterson
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Hello, my name is Sara and I am from Ireland. My philosophy is: Life is an adventure or nothing at all.

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Joined Mar 17, 2026
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