“As long as you have your feet under my table...” You must obey me as long as you are dependent on me. That is the message. Where do you feel compelled to obey even though it is not in your nature, because you are afraid? Afraid of losing your livelihood, your freedom, or the recognition of the community? Are there other phrases that come to mind in this context?

Let us celebrate the arrival of something great. Let us call it whatever we want. What is coming for you? Advent. The time of arrival. Christian in nature. But couldn't it be viewed in a broader context? The time of greatest darkness—the winter solstice—is approaching. The darker the season, the stronger the inner reflection. What is your theme? Has it already revealed itself? Or would you like to discover it?

In life, there are often decisions that are not so easy to make. Let's imagine: You live in a country where the security situation has deteriorated significantly. Especially in the evenings and early hours of the morning, it is no longer safe in large cities. You run the risk of being attacked and robbed. The government is considering taking the following measures: 🚨 ⚠️Public places and streets will be monitored. Camera systems with facial recognition will be used. ⚠️Curfew from 9:00 p.m. to midnight and from 4:00 a.m. to 5:00 a.m. ⚠️Everyone must stay at home between midnight and 4:00 a.m. What do you think about this? 💕

The 💕Judas goat In the past, slaughterhouses used a special goat to lead the other animals to slaughter without causing them undue stress. This animal was very dominant and reassured the fearful animals that it was safe to follow the Judas goat. The goat was spared, and the herd was taken to slaughter. What is the Judas goat in you? The part that tempts you to run toward destruction? Over and over again? I'll start in the comments 👇

There are life decisions that go wrong. 😭 You marry a woman and after the wedding she turns out to be malicious. You buy a used car and after a few miles it breaks down. 😭Engine failure. You have already invested 6 months and a 5-figure sum in a project. 😭 Will you simply separate from the woman, dispose of the used car, and abandon the project without success? Probably not at first. 🤔 Research into decision-making biases has found that we often continue too long and hold on to things that were doomed to fail long ago. Why? 🙄 Well, we are afraid, ashamed, and shy away from loss—this is called loss aversion. 💕 Imagine if there was a technique that helped you make clearer decisions and avoid biases (which lead to bad decisions)? 💞🧠 What decisions have you made and stuck with for far too long? Or where have you observed something similar before? I start in the comments...