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Sleep.
I want to talk about the thing most men in this community are not taking seriously enough. Sleep. Not your training. Not your diet. Sleep. I used to have sleep apnea. I was overweight, stressed, and running on fumes. I thought that was just what life felt like after 40. I was wrong. It was what poor recovery felt like, and I was doing it to myself. Here's what I do now. Eyes covered. Mouth taped. Phone down well before I get into bed. I look like a monster, and I wake up recovered. That's the trade I'll take every single time. After 40, your body does not recover the way it used to. That is not negotiable. What you can control is how seriously you protect the window where recovery actually happens. No supplement, no training program, no diet is going to outwork broken sleep. I don't care how perfect your sessions are. If you're sleeping five hours, waking up in the night, or going to bed with your brain still running, you are undermining everything else you're doing. Bad night's sleep? I still go to the gym. But I pull back on the gas. I don't beat myself up about it. I do what I can and I protect tomorrow's sleep even harder. That's the discipline most men ignore. And it's costing them more than they realise. How many hours are you actually sleeping, and is recovery something you're treating as seriously as your training? Drop it below. 👇
1 like • 3d
Around 7 hrs give or take. Im in bed in plenty of time normally just wake up several times a night
I want to hear from you directly.
Not about your program. Not about your numbers. About the moment things started to shift. There's always a moment. The morning you looked in the mirror and made a decision. The session where something clicked. The week you realised you were actually consistent for the first time in years. That moment is worth sharing, because somewhere in this community right now there's a man who hasn't had his yet. And reading yours might be the thing that gets him there. This brotherhood grows when we're honest with each other. The wins, the setbacks, the turning points. What was the moment things started to change for you, and what did it feel like when you knew you were back? Drop it below. 👇
4 likes • 17d
After retirement I ended up gaining up to 256. Really hit me hard so I started with hard clean eating diets even fasting and KETO. Once much of the weight came off muscle did to I was becoming skinny fat and did not like what I was becoming. I started with dumbells at home then one day I was getting out of the shower and had no shirt on my wife said you are starting to look like you did years ago. People noticing changes sparked a massive shift. I got my gym membership and started deep research into fitness. I have been locked in hard since the middle of January.
1 like • 8d
@John Cianti absolutely. My results from the 256 to 178 was big for me but to small. I wish I would have added more strength training during that time but simply did not know. Was looking to lean first. Now I up to 190 with noticeable muscle
What does cardio actually look like in your routine right now?
Let me ask you guys something directly. What does cardio actually look like in your routine right now? I get this question constantly and my honest answer is, it depends entirely on where you are and what you're trying to do. For me personally, I don't do a lot of traditional cardio. The way I train, shorter rest periods, higher reps, moving through the session with intention, my heart rate stays elevated through the whole workout. That's my cardio. It works for me. But I'm not you. If you're carrying extra weight, cardio has a role, but not mindless flat treadmill walking. You need incline. You need a real protocol paired with your diet. Walking on a flat belt for 20 minutes isn't moving the needle. If heart health is your concern, that's a different conversation entirely. Cardiovascular conditioning for longevity looks different from cardio for fat loss. Both matter. Neither is optional. And if you're trying to build muscle and you're a hard gainer, be careful. Too much cardio eats into recovery and you'll wonder why the gains aren't coming. There's no cookie cutter answer here. That's the whole point. You are built different from the next guy. What works for one man may work against another. What does cardio look like in your routine right now, and do you feel like it's actually serving your goals or just something you feel like you're supposed to do? Drop it below. 👇
4 likes • 8d
Cardio for me is just being active. 8 to 12 thousand steps a day, golf, hunting, fishing. Just making sure im active every day
250 years. Today TEMPERED™️ opens to you first.
Two hundred fifty years ago today, a group of men put their names on a page and decided they would build the thing themselves rather than have it handed to them. What came after did not go easy on it. Pressure, setbacks, hard decades. All of it tempered the thing into something that could last. That word is not an accident. Tempering is what you do to steel. You heat it, you stress it, and it comes back harder and far tougher to break. It is the whole idea behind how we train in here, and it is the reason this line is called TEMPERED™️. So here is the timing. On the day the country turns 250, TEMPERED™️ goes live, and Premier members get it before anyone else. Not the wider community yet. Not the public. You. You earned the first look because you are the ones who actually put in the work. Seven products, professional strength, made through a practitioner channel most brands cannot touch. Formulated to be taken consistently over the long haul, the same way we train. No hype on the label. Just what works. Right now this is Premier only. The rest of the community comes next, then the public. Get your order in before the crowd shows up and be the guy who was already using it.
1 like • 21d
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Heavy as possible
Let me talk to you guys about something I call walking the rack. Most men in the gym have one setting, heavy as possible. They walk up to the dumbbells, grab the biggest pair they think they can handle, and fight their way through it. Grinding. Squirming. Using everything but the muscle they're actually supposed to be training. That's not progressive overload. That's ego. Walking the rack is different. You start lighter than you think you need to. You get the blood flowing, you get the mind-muscle connection firing, you get locked in. Then, and only if you can still hit 12 to 16 clean reps with full control, you move up. You're not chasing a number. You're chasing the feeling. The pump. The connection. That zone where your brain and the muscle you're training are completely dialled in to each other. Some days I stay light the whole session because that's what my body needs. Other days I walk up the rack and find a weight that really challenges me within that rep range. Both are right. What's never right is grabbing a weight so heavy you can't feel the muscle working. I could do 50s or 60s on a shoulder press. I choose not to. Not because I can't, because it doesn't serve what I'm actually trying to build. That's the difference between training with ego and training with intelligence. Do you walk the rack, or do you go straight to the heaviest weight you can handle? Drop it below. 👇
2 likes • 27d
I normally start with what I consider a light weight for the exercise. Do maybe 8 to 10 slow controlled reps to feel the exercise. Then move up to like 75 to 80% of the weight I was at the last time I trained. Then go to that weight shooting for 6 to 10 reps wherever failure or 1 to 2 RIR. I keep a log book to work on improving in some way each week. Be it better form, more weight or hitting the top of my rep range then adding weight the next session. 2.5s for isolation exercises or 5 for compounds. My problem with this method is the weight has gotten heavy enough to where it hurts and im not hitting new progression nor recovering. This is why I joined this community for help on what exactly to do. I had never lifted till this past January in a gym so to be honest im very uneducated lol
1 like • 24d
@Keith Hanenian Esq 100% agree. Your program plus what I have found about tendon strengthening and repair is getting me back into high intensity workouts without the pain. Really appreciate your insight Keith and so glad you sent me the link to join this community. Its been a game changer for me
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