Epiphany of my own lies!!!
Howdo. Just wanted to put this out there, bring it to the forefront of my concious mind and move forward. Today i have been out to do a site survey for my current business. whilst driving, i was listening to some NLP coursework and my lie suddenly hit me and sunk in. When i first started this course, i realy just wanted to help other people get better, My niche is alcoholics on the road of recovery, finding their self worth. I also, didnt have a clue of how i was going to do it, Eds videos just got me buzzing and made me feel like it was possible. As time has moved on, i have built my program into an NLP based program, finding the clients disempowering language and reframeing it to provide positive results and a belief change......... That, right there is my lie. Using NLP is not something i have done until recently, infact, i am only just learning it. I am enjoying learning the new skills and will fully be implementing them into my practice. But right now, the current truth is, that i am not confident enough or efficient enough with NLP to be teaching it to others. This being said, i am learning new skills every day, i am seeing more and more the language patterns that people use to hold themselves back, and i feel with time, i will be able to use these techniques skillfully to help my clients. But right now, i am going back to the beginning, back to the drawing board to find within myself how i can allign with my current knowledge in order to provide a heartfelt, meaningful program that will provide results. im grateful for this moment, for this mistake i have made, it will help me to pin down my program for a clearer message and i can move forward with the confidence that my new program will actually be based around what i do know, not what i want to know.