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The ARENA

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What's the Gap?
I want to try something different this week. Instead of asking you what your goal is or what your thing is, I want to ask you something harder. Think about the best version of yourself. Not the Instagram version. The real one. The person you are when everything is clicking, when you are living with intention, when you feel like yourself. Now be honest. What is the biggest gap between that person and who you are showing up as right now? Not a goal. Not a resolution. A gap. Name it here. One sentence. I will go first in the comments. Then I want to talk about it this week.
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3 Fs - Failure, Forgiveness, Fear. Yes, I know there’s a lot to unpack there. And I am grateful for therapists who continue to help me move beyond these (especially the big failures, e.g. marriage failure), but sometimes the smallest insignificant failures can cause me to go back to the beginning of a spiral, and my inability to forgive myself becomes paralyzing fear.
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Philip Hawkins
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Old man on life’s journey

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Joined May 8, 2026