Gratitude for me is a gift with no strings attached. The other day l misplaced my wallet, ( it fell out of my pocket getting out of my car), l didn't realize it was gone until l was teaching my Tai Chi class, l felt it would be found again, but l wasn't sure. When l got to my car, it there on the floor of the car. It was more than relief, l felt grateful and said thank you to no one in particular. ln the past l would have felt that l didn't deserve it, that l was somehow unworthy, it was my fault, l should be more careful. My experiencing being grateful is unfolding as l clear away my past beliefs and my expectations about how gratitude works. lt's kinda like a surprise, l guess l could say it comes from not knowing.