Okay ladies, I had the idea of adding something like a Husband Material Score, where you can upload text messages from him, maybe his dating profile information about him. The more you upload, the more accurate it is, and then we'll rank him on his ability to communicate and his emotional IQ and a bunch of other metrics. We'll give him a Husband Material Score. I made a rough draft idea before we build it out with our designer and Niklavs. I'd love to know what features you'd like added to this as we build it into Alora. I think it's going to be so much fun to have this. Also, if you're dating and you have multiple men in mind, I was thinking maybe you could add multiple men to see how they compare. You have a place where you can be vulnerable and honest about how he's making you feel and keep track of if the relationship is getting better or worse. Whats one thing you'd like this husband score to include? Also any other features you want added or removed from Alora? Im all ears

A little story behind the swans and the new name for this community. Swans mate for life. One partner, chosen carefully and kept forever. They’re soft, graceful, and calm on the surface, but they’re also fiercely selective. They don’t waste their love on someone who isn’t sure. They don’t perform for attention. They wait for the one that truly matches them. That’s the energy I want for every woman in here :) For so long, women have been told that being soft means being endlessly available. That to be chosen, you have to shrink, bend, stay quiet, stay easy, and prove your worth. So we overthink. We over-give. We text first, wait around, care too much, and wonder why we keep ending up with men who feel lukewarm at best. But softness was never the problem. Being available to anyone was. The most magnetic women are soft and selective. Warm, feminine, discerning, and completely unwilling to settle for less than what they want. They choose like swans. Carefully. Fully. And only when it’s right. That’s what I want us to build in here. Let’s reintroduce ourselves 🤍 Old member or brand new, I’d love for us to meet each other again. Go make a new intro post! Drop a comment with: 1. Your name 2. Where you’re from 3. Your favorite book or the one you're reading now I’ll go first below. Can’t wait to meet you again :) Soft in energy. Selective in standards. Hi, I’m Maureen Evelyn. I’m currently in Bangkok, originally from Virginia, and before I met Niklavs I was living in Scottsdale, Arizona. Right now I’m reading Why Men Lie and Women Cry, and it’s been SO good so far.

The “Start a Business” challenge is definitely my favorite because the majority of the other challenges I’ve done are building off of it.