One of the biggest mistakes I made in dating was acting like the man’s manager. I was constantly evaluating telling him how to get better and it was exhausting. Then I shifted into dating like a CEO and everything changed for me. I felt way more peaceful and relaxed, and I started treating dating like collecting data. I filmed this video here in Thailand and I can’t wait to share it with you because I think it’s really gonna change your perspective.

When it comes to your relationship or dating what is the biggest thing you’re thinking about? Ask me below and I’ll answer as many questions as I can personally!

Okay ladies, I need your help with something and I want you to be brutally honest with me. 🥹 You guys are literally the reason Alora exists. Every feature, every challenge, every word in the app was built thinking about you. And lately I've been sitting with this question: is it actually working for you? Like really working. Not "yeah it's cute" working. But "this changed how I show up in my relationship" working. I want to know everything. What's the one feature you open the app for? What's the thing you wish it did but it doesn't yet? Is there a moment recently where Alora helped you say something different, walk away from something, hold a standard, feel less crazy at 2am when you couldn't stop overthinking his text? Or honestly - is there something that's annoying you? A challenge that didn't land? Advice that felt off? A feature that feels broken or pointless? I want the messy honest feedback more than the nice stuff. I can't fix what I don't know about, and I'd rather hear it from you than read it in a 2-star review. Niklavs and I are heads down on the next sprint and your answers literally shape what we build next. We've been going hard - personalized home screens, AI-recommended challenges, 130 new ones, voice input is here - but I don't want to keep guessing. I want to build what you actually need. Drop a comment here, I read every single one. 💗 Tell me: 1. What's working? 2. What's missing? 3. What would make you tell every single one of your friends to download it tomorrow? I love you guys. Truly. None of this exists without you. Maureen :)

Okay ladies, I had the idea of adding something like a Husband Material Score, where you can upload text messages from him, maybe his dating profile information about him. The more you upload, the more accurate it is, and then we'll rank him on his ability to communicate and his emotional IQ and a bunch of other metrics. We'll give him a Husband Material Score. I made a rough draft idea before we build it out with our designer and Niklavs. I'd love to know what features you'd like added to this as we build it into Alora. I think it's going to be so much fun to have this. Also, if you're dating and you have multiple men in mind, I was thinking maybe you could add multiple men to see how they compare. You have a place where you can be vulnerable and honest about how he's making you feel and keep track of if the relationship is getting better or worse. Whats one thing you'd like this husband score to include? Also any other features you want added or removed from Alora? Im all ears

A little story behind the swans and the new name for this community. Swans mate for life. One partner, chosen carefully and kept forever. They’re soft, graceful, and calm on the surface, but they’re also fiercely selective. They don’t waste their love on someone who isn’t sure. They don’t perform for attention. They wait for the one that truly matches them. That’s the energy I want for every woman in here :) For so long, women have been told that being soft means being endlessly available. That to be chosen, you have to shrink, bend, stay quiet, stay easy, and prove your worth. So we overthink. We over-give. We text first, wait around, care too much, and wonder why we keep ending up with men who feel lukewarm at best. But softness was never the problem. Being available to anyone was. The most magnetic women are soft and selective. Warm, feminine, discerning, and completely unwilling to settle for less than what they want. They choose like swans. Carefully. Fully. And only when it’s right. That’s what I want us to build in here. Let’s reintroduce ourselves 🤍 Old member or brand new, I’d love for us to meet each other again. Go make a new intro post! Drop a comment with: 1. Your name 2. Where you’re from 3. Your favorite book or the one you're reading now I’ll go first below. Can’t wait to meet you again :) Soft in energy. Selective in standards. Hi, I’m Maureen Evelyn. I’m currently in Bangkok, originally from Virginia, and before I met Niklavs I was living in Scottsdale, Arizona. Right now I’m reading Why Men Lie and Women Cry, and it’s been SO good so far.