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14 contributions to 🏳️‍🌈The "ME" Project🏳️‍🌈
Your Win This Week? ☺️
What’s your win from this week? What made you feel grateful, or what’s a funny story that made you laugh out loud?
1 like • 24h
Wins for the week: I completed a partial fast day Saturday and gave my metabolic system some rest. I consciously chose to be with some grief after a funeral Friday, however uncomfortable, vs. distract (as I've gotten older, I've become more conscious about sitting with uncomfortable feelings). Also, I'm not letting myself shrink in my friendships with straight men and be dominated, which is a celebration for me, as there's some pain and sensitivity there due to my socialization (& I'm sure many other gay men can relate).
0 likes • 11h
@Marek Bartosz awesome. I'm in St. Pete, Florida. If you guys plan to visit here, hit me up, though I will be in Pensacola, FL actually Thursday-Sunday.
What’s your win this week?
Share one win from this week or an aha moment — nothing is too small.
1 like • 7d
@Frederik Schaaf Building AI agents! It's a lot and moves fast, but empowering and shifting how I see AI. Rage room is amazing...I have 2 more wins I may share later. More gay-related. Maybe we can begin with wins as part of check in?
2 likes • 6d
@Frederik Schaaf I really appreciate how you hear us and integrate our voices, wants, and contributions. It meets my needs for consideration and inclusion. Thanks Frederik for being THAT BISH!!
Monogamy vs Ethical non Monogamy
What do you believe in? I would like to hear your theory and why it works out for you ☺️
4 likes • 8d
MoNoorgamy for me. But soft and relaxed, not hardlined, not religious, not dogmatic. If it needs to be re-evaluated in the future due to certain arising needs (i.e. me or my partner becomes impotent or whatever), we re-evaluate.
Principle over impulse
Great call today fellas! Thank you to everyone who shared. I enjoyed hearing everyone’s perspective. I had a thought come up while people were sharing about attraction in interpersonal relationships and how that has the ability to get complicated in male to male relationships with men who have same sex attraction. This is something I’ve personally worked on quite a bit and I think it’s a skill that can help bridge connection. I think it can be limiting when we’re attracted to someone and prioritize fulfilling our sexual/romantic impulse over slowing down, honoring the desire, and holding it without having to act on it. I think that when we can hold our attraction for a person but prioritize the connection, or what’s actually bonding us, over our personal desire to make it sexual or romantic, then we can open ourselves up to more meaningful experiences. Not every desire has to be acted on and not every connection has to escalate. I think the more we can learn and practice that, the more we’re able to stay in integrity and community when we find someone attractive but we or they are not available for escalation.
3 likes • 11d
PREACH. Beautifully said. Thanks for this reflection @Homar Maximiliano. It’s invitational. It sounds like it could be a practice of mindfulness and self-restraint. Do you feel you have integrated this? And, what supported you in this? How did you navigate the challenges?
Let’s shape this community together 🤍
I just want to share something from the heart for a moment. The last few calls have honestly meant a lot to me. There’s something really special happening here… the honesty, the openness, the way people listen and support each other—it’s not something I take for granted. I feel genuinely grateful that each of you is here and willing to show up as you are. 🤍 I don’t just want this to grow— I want this to become even more meaningful for all of us. So I’ve been thinking about how I can give more and how we can deepen what we’re already building together: • Hot Seat Call (once a month) We’d have 3 people per call, each getting ~20 minutes to share whatever they’re going through—so we can really listen, support, and help each other move forward. • Expert Call (once a month) Bringing in someone inspiring (relationships, health, mindset…), having a conversation with them, and then opening it up so you can ask your own questions. • Our regular community calls (2x/month) Just like now— one topic, real conversations, shared experiences, learning from each other. • Possibly recordings in the future So if someone can’t make it live, they still feel included and can take something away from This is really just me thinking out loud, not a final plan. I’d truly love to hear from you: 👉 How does this feel to you? 👉 What would make this space even more valuable for you? 👉 Anything you’d love more (or less) of? At the end of the day, this isn’t “my” community—it’s ours. And I want to shape it in a way that supports all of us. Thank you again for being here, for your openness, and for trusting each other. It really means a lot. 🤍
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@Frederik Schaaf wonderful, thank you. Then, yeah, I'll just take care of my needs if I need to leave after the hour, since it's late for me....sure everyone will understand. I appreciate u considering my topics too.
2 likes • 12d
Also, guys, I just wanted to share that if ever I come/join on a Wed, I will likely have my video off most of the call, unless I'm speaking. I'll be present, but it's not an ideal time for me, so I need to attend to some of my needs then. But, if you're curious what I have to say, feel free to check in with me. That'll also meet my need for inclusion. Thanks!
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Noor Alexander
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@noor-alexander-5930
Hi, my name is Noor, & I practice & offer depth-oriented psychotherapy, transformational life coaching, psychospiritual education, & local workshops.

Active 11h ago
Joined Mar 24, 2026
St. Petersburg, Florida