What’s the best way to detach from someone. Im guessing no contact will break the pattern Has anyone detached from someone and was there a way you did it. Thanks

How do you know when you are being respected by a person, Sometimes i know when I'm being respected but other times i'm not sure, i can often not be aware if i'm being treated badly by someone, which is strange i know, I'm very intuitive, but when it comes to things like this, i need it spelled out sometimes, I can have delayed reactions. Its like if i was being treated badly i may not process it until a few hours later, I'm also very openminded, so I can be very forgiving of people, but want to learn self respect more, (when it comes to people in general)

Question: Anyone else have a “term of endearment” they find triggering??? That phrase has become a trigger for me. I think it always was, but the recent overuse/abuse- directed at me- has put it in the spotlight. Logically: It’s stupid. States the obvious- we are Love. The only thing that isn’t a choice, cuz it’s our “Source.” Saying it is redundant. “I Like you,” would be far more powerful to me. Personally, my mom used it for control. My kids dad for manipulation & my “TF” for a hook. The last 2 used it so much, I hear it in the baby’s voice from family guy. Love isn’t an option. It’s the source. It’s as much a part of “Us” as our species & this planet. Separation isn’t an option. You can choose to reject it, disassociate from it, hide, control, run- whatever “pattern” tickles your fancy. Wherever you go: There you are, Love. “Love you more,” is not an option either. There is no “more” in infinity. To believe there’s “more” makes Love conditional. I now tell my kids, “I more than Love you” & a series of other endearing terms. They had the same influences abusing it- curious where it landed in their nervous system. Asking the question (above) cuz it occurred to me that name calling & body shaming clearly is triggering. But now, I’m seeing how grooming & manipulation is coerced thru “Love bombing” & wondering if anyone else is feeling it.

After I shared my last post about books, one of you recommended Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself by Joe Dispenza. I realized that I had actually bought this book last year, but I never got around to reading it. Since this morning, I've read about 30 pages, and so far, I think it's an incredible book. It's about quantum physics, and scientific concepts related to the law of attraction. I definitely recommend giving it a read🪄🔮

im sorry if you have heard this story before, but im still confused. i have a friend who is male, and we get along really well. He's always there for me etc and listens, but never shares anything with me. I mean when I ask what he has been doing, i get no answer, but i will share everything i've been doing and who i met, everything. I feel its a control thing from him, but others may say thats his personality. I have said just last week, 'how come you don't share anything, you just deflect when i ask a question'? he said he's very private. But it feels unfair and unbalanced. He knows everything i think, feel and do, but i know nothing about him. The reason im still friends with him is we can talk about spiritual things, and he's sensitive, and will be there for me if i need someone to talk to etc. I also like listening though, so it just feels confusing. Last time he called, i shared nothing, i mirrored how he is, and i feel very closed now towards him. if anyone can read this situation please let me know. thanks