Good day Men, I was reminded yesterday about the power of what I focus on I get more of. For example, I have been ruminating on some challenges and worrying about worst case scenarios. Yeah the old stink'n-think'n! And what happens? Well being so engrossed in the negative outcome that it ends up solidifying to the degree that it becomes a reality. I can attest to this as I have experienced a few setbacks and outcomes lately. And I know it is all me and my energy and where I put my focus. In these scenarios I did not dig into the one feeling that changes everything...Certainty. Once I get back into the energy of having certainty, i embody the vibe of a man that is confident about his outcome. I breathed into the truth that I am a remarkable man...a champion! I am intelligent, creative, and capable of any outcome I put my mind to. As I embody this certainty my world starts to solidify that preferred reality into my experience. The last few days I allowed my forgetful self to run the show. It was my higher self the got me back to the truth. Take any situation you are in right now that you need to get resolved, and ask yourself, "What would I do right now if I had absolute certainty that I could do this and I cannot fail?" Breathe that In. In fact, breathe it in a few times. When was the last time your wife or girlfriend felt certainty from you? When did you bring certainty into your business or career? What about certainty in your finances and relationship with money? What about certainty in your direction and future? Certainty, Brother! It matters! And it is in you! You've got this! Be Remarkable! (with certainty) Coach Dwayne

I admit it. I have hit the wall. I'm in a funk and my energy is pushing away all that I am working hard at creating. How ironic, right? This coming from the Coach For Remarkable Men. But I can't put a mask on it, and I can't pretend it's not there. So today I am sharing a real, and raw reality that I find myself in. I am sharing this so that if you are also going through a tough time, that you get a nugget of insight to help you through it. I am practicing the art of letting go and surrendering to something better. I am also practicing gratitude and letting go of how things are suppose to be. Make this distinction, this is not about giving up, this is just surrendering control to your higher power and allowing clarity and repose to be my guide. I will get through this and so will you. Let's get the conversation going. Can you relate? What's happening in your world? Put it in the comments! Coach Dwayne

Thank you for being real Dwayne

@Dwayne Klassen I just wanted to say thank you for being and doing what you are doing, shining a light for other men to see. I am a flawed man who doesn't get what he wants in life marriage and sex, but I am slowly understanding... it is my mentality and feelings of lack and insecurities that keeps hamstringing myself... I seem to be king of stubborn and putting my foot in my mouth. I am working on being less needy and more masculine for myself and my family

You've been around the block. You have learned much. Sometimes we have to go to the bottom to get the lessons before we rise back up. As much as it is hard and often feels like our own personal hell, it is the place that gives us the greatest life lessons. Whether it is from your own experience or from a lesson you've learned from your favourite guru or self development expert, share the wisdom that made a difference for you. Your share could be the exact message a brother needs today.