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2 contributions to Mental Load Basics
Paternity Leave
(Question to the men or to the women about their husbands) How much did you or thee father in your life take? How much would you have liked to take (or he)? How much did you have available with what compensation?
1 like • 6d
For my last 2 kids in 2019 and 2021 I got 10 weeks 100% pay from my company (Oracle). They also let me split the time up if I wanted but had to be at least 2 week chunks and used within the child’s first year.
2 likes • 5d
@Zach Watson I don’t recall if I did or not. I will say in 2019 my wife worked out of the home still and did not have any paid maternity leave. So I waited to start my leave until she went back to work in roughly six weeks and then I started my 10 weeks and it was just me and our son at home for those 10 weeks. I really enjoyed that time.
How far into the Fair Play Method Are you?
Hearing for first time? Have the book, gathering dust? Started, stopped Read a fair amount, haven’t implemented cards Had 1 talk with cards, and never revisited? Revisiting consistently
1 like • Nov '25
New to the group. I am definitely interested in the book.
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Michael Galer
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@michael-galer-8454
We’ve been together since 2011. Have two kids together, 4 yr old girl and 6 yr old boy. Our son is non verbal autistic. Working on balancing the load

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