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How can we help strike the spark of momentum?
@Jason Weiland - I didn't want to ask this in LI. So I cam here to see how I (we) can help spark the momentum. I have days like that and havinv someone to think and brainstorm with helps me pick up momentum.
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@Frank Jones I was this before. Always waiting for some fairy dust to defrost my brain. Guess what? Life happens. I got busy. Nothing came immediately. It went on. Days turned into months. By the time it came, I had wasted unnecessary time. So, yes, Jason is right. Just show up and write (or do whatever it is that you do). The exercise will strengthen your muscle, whether it's your memory or your thinking cap.
Welcome to everyone who just joined.
If you're here, you're probably over 40 and fighting the same fight I am. Sending out resumes that disappear into the void. Getting ghosted by recruiters. Watching younger people get hired for jobs you're overqualified for. Wondering if you're unemployable or if the entire system just broke while you weren't looking. You're not imagining it. The job market is brutal right now. Especially for us. I'm 57. I've been freelancing for over 20 years. I have a degree. I use AI tools every day. I'm faster and better at my work than I've ever been. And I still can't get hired. Not because I'm not good enough. Because companies don't want to invest in people like us anymore. We're too expensive. Too experienced. Too likely to know our worth and not accept garbage wages. This group exists because we're all dealing with the same thing. And most of us are doing it alone. Scrolling LinkedIn at 2am wondering what we're doing wrong. Applying to jobs we're overqualified for and still not getting callbacks. Trying to figure out how to rebuild a career in a market that decided we're disposable. You're not alone. That's why we're here. Drop a comment and introduce yourself. Where are you? What kind of work are you looking for? What's your biggest struggle right now? Let's actually talk about this. Let's help each other. Let's stop pretending this is normal and start figuring out how to survive it together. Welcome. I'm glad you're here.
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Hi Jason and everyone. Melissa here from Sabah, Malaysia. I’m 45 and have recently seen the light, so to speak, to start over. I’ve been a stay-at-home mom for 13 years. Along the way, I tried to make some extras but never with writing — though I did write stories for free on Facebook. I was often told I was good, but I guess I never really believed it. Somewhere in December, something started to shake. I was going through a rough time. My marriage was hmph. The kids were weird, or maybe they were just reacting to my insecurities. Internally, I blew up. Come January 1st, I told myself it was either I die trying to make something from my writing or I die miserable. I figured, not trying to put my writing out there because I am afraid of the judgment is way worse than waiting for the end. Right now, I’m still finding my footing. I’m writing for Medium and am currently working on the first 4 chapters of a novella that I will send as an application for a grant. All this while managing my demons and frogs. Still, I’m grateful to go through this phase with AI — whether for writing alongside me or reminding me that feeling stupid is part of my DNA. Anyway, that's pretty much my whole life. End note: I’m truly grateful to be here, and looking forward to learning with everyone.
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Melissa Lohindun
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I chase light in small moments while raising humans and running on love (always w/ either coffee or 🥃).

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Joined Jan 19, 2026