Hello everyone I hope you are all well? Sorry if this is a personal question. But is anyone on ADHD medication and if you are how did you find them when you first started taking them, did you experience any side effects

Hi guys I'm just wondering does anybody else struggle with like when they have visual timetables, lists etc to get them done like they supposed to be there to support to get stuff done. And lately if I tell myself im going to do something I dont seem to get it done like the other day I was like im going to make a nice breakfast because otherwise I would just skip meals and because I was telling myself im going to do it I didnt end up doing it where as if I just gone and done it with out thinking about it would of done it. It's a bit of a tricky one to explain

In this lesson, we looked at why ADHD brains need reset routines, not perfect routines. Because let’s be honest. Most of us don’t struggle because we’ve never tried a routine. We struggle because life happens, energy changes, sleep gets messy, emotions hit, we miss one day, then the routine starts feeling ruined. That’s where the shame starts. “I’ve failed again.” “I knew I wouldn’t stick to it.” “What’s the point now?” But the goal is not to create a routine you never miss. The goal is to create a routine you can return to. A reset routine is a simple way back. It might be: A morning reset to start the day with direction. An evening reset to reduce tomorrow’s friction. A weekly reset to bring life back into view. A fallen-off reset to restart without shame. The best reset routines are small, visible, and realistic enough to use on messy days. Your turn 💬 What reset routine would help you most right now? Choose one: - morning reset - evening reset - weekly reset - fallen-off reset Then share your three tiny steps. Example: I need a fallen-off reset. My three steps are: drink water, write down everything in my head, and choose one tiny next step. Or: I need an evening reset. My three steps are: check tomorrow’s first commitment, put one thing by the door, and write down anything I don’t want to forget. No need to make it impressive. Actually, the smaller the better. The best reset is the one you’ll actually come back to when things feel messy. And if someone else shares a reset that would help you too, use it. Borrowing simple systems is allowed.

In this lesson, we looked at how your environment can either support your ADHD brain or make things harder. Your phone on the desk pulls attention. A bill hidden under papers disappears from your mind. A planner in a drawer gets forgotten. A bag by the door reminds you what to take. A visible water bottle makes drinking water easier. Your environment is constantly giving your brain cues. So instead of relying on memory, motivation, and willpower alone, you can design your surroundings to make follow-through easier. The basic idea is: Make the helpful thing obvious. Make the unhelpful thing harder. Remove friction before you need motivation. This might mean creating a launch pad by the door, leaving your planner open, putting your phone across the room, moving distracting apps, setting up your workspace before you stop, or putting the next step somewhere visible. Small environment changes can make a big difference because ADHD brains often respond to what is visible, immediate, and easy to access. Your turn 💬 What is one environment change you could make to help your ADHD brain follow through? You could share: - something you’ll make more visible - one distraction you’ll make harder to access - a launch pad you’ll create - one bit of friction you’ll remove - a cue you’ll put somewhere obvious - a space you’ll simplify - an item you’ll give a proper home Example: I’m going to create a launch pad by the front door for my keys, wallet, bag, and anything I need to take with me. Or: I’m going to put my phone across the room when I’m working, because if it’s next to me I check it automatically. Or: I’m going to leave my planner open on my desk instead of putting it away, because if I can’t see it I forget it exists. No need to redesign your whole house. One small change is enough. And if someone else shares an idea that would help you too, use it. Simple ideas are often the ones that actually stick.

In this lesson, we looked at one of the biggest ADHD struggles: Starting. Not knowing what to do is one thing. But knowing what to do and still not being able to start can feel even more frustrating. This is where a lot of ADHD shame comes from. You tell yourself: “I should just do it.” “It’s not even that hard.” “Why am I like this?” But task initiation is not just about effort. Starting becomes harder when the task is too big, too vague, too boring, too emotional, too hidden, or has no immediate reward. So the goal is not to shame yourself into action. The goal is to lower the starting line. Make it smaller. Make it clearer. Make it visible. Make it timed. Make it supported. Make it imperfect. Sometimes the most powerful step is not finishing the task. It’s making the task easy enough to begin. Your turn 💬 What task are you going to make easier to start, and what is your smallest first step? You can use this format: Task I’m avoiding: Smallest first step: Example: Task I’m avoiding: Sorting my inbox Smallest first step: Open emails and delete five obvious ones Or: Task I’m avoiding: Cleaning the kitchen Smallest first step: Put five things away Or: Task I’m avoiding: Writing a difficult message Smallest first step: Write one messy sentence in notes No need to pick something huge. Actually, smaller is better. And if someone else posts their tiny step, reply with encouragement. A little external support can make starting feel much less lonely.