I’ve been doing some research - talking to people, reading studies, asking my clients, friends and strangers. And here’s what I’ve found: The most common factor people mention when describing great sex? Feeling safe to talk about what they like. Turns out, good sex isn’t about performance - it’s about communication, presence, and relaxation. People who feel free to express their needs, set boundaries, and share desires tend to report way more satisfaction in bed. So… maybe the real “sex skill” isn’t about technique. Maybe it’s about how well you can talk, listen and stay present... How easy is it for you to talk about sex?