@Jill Hart oooh the astrology reading sounds interesting. What did she tell you?

Prayers for both you and your dad. Take care xxx

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@The Warrior Shaman yes I believe that too.

@Hillis Pugh Absolutely, I would never want to go back and erase my past, I wouldn't be who I am now without it.

@Jill Hart When I talk about unconscious agendas, I’m not talking about something being wrong with you. I’m talking about the quiet programmes your subconscious runs in the background, to keep you safe, it's often shaped early in life, often before you had language, choice, or context. These agendas aren’t logical. They’re protective. At some point, your nervous system learned rules like: - Stay small to stay safe - Don’t need too much because you will be dissappointed - Keep the peace at all costs so everyone likes you - If I’m independent and don't need anyone, I won’t be disappointed None of these were conscious decisions. They were survival strategies. The subconscious doesn’t care about happiness or fulfilment. It cares about familiarity and safety. So even when you consciously want change, your subconscious may quietly steer you back toward what it recognises, familiar relationships, familiar struggles, familiar emotional states. That’s the agenda. It shows up when: - You say you want something different, but repeat the same patterns - You overthink decisions and then choose what feels “safe” rather than trueth - You attract similar dynamics in different packaging - You sabotage momentum just as things start to feel good Becoming aware of these unconscious agendas isn’t about digging endlessly into the past or blaming yourself. It’s about recognising who is in the driver’s seat. When these patterns remain unconscious, they run the show.When they are brought into awareness, choice becomes possible. So the real question becomes:Are you open to noticing the unconscious agendas your subconscious is still playing, not to judge them, but to gently update them? Because once you see them, you don’t have to obey them. You can thank them for protecting you…and then choose something new. Hope this helps

@Victoria Davitashvili Oh Vik I disgraced myself last night, I'm so sorry, I was listening intently to Prima and suddenly there was no you and a room full of people.

I had dinner with a lady from the US a few nights ago, asked why she was in Bali and she said she was escaping the US, her husband had passed and she didn't want to spend thanksgiving there without him, so she travelled to Bali where no one would care what the date was. I send out love to all of my friends in the US who are struggling at this time of the year. My heart goes out to you with sympathy and even though I have no understanding of what that holiday represents to you, I certainly do understand the feeling of being alone and loss. Take care my friends. xxx