I keep noticing how often support in growth spaces is framed around visibility, frequency, and output — how much you post, how often you comment, how consistently you show up publicly. I understand where that belief comes from. Momentum matters. Engagement matters. Consistency can help things grow. But I’m starting to question what happens when those become the main measures of belonging. What does it mean for people who are part of multiple communities at once? People who are genuinely engaged, supportive, and invested — but whose energy is spread across different spaces, relationships, and responsibilities? Does contribution only count when it’s concentrated in one place? Or can it still be real, meaningful support when it’s shared across many rooms? I’m also thinking about quieter forms of contribution — thoughtful replies, behind-the-scenes support, one-to-one conversations, or simply being present when it truly matters, rather than constantly visible. Is support still support if it only exists when someone is “on”? If slowing down, resting, or redistributing energy is interpreted as disengagement? Where’s the line between encouragement and pressure? Between building momentum… and unintentionally creating environments where people feel they have to perform connection to remain included? For me, sustainable community has to allow for different rhythms and realities. Some seasons are focused. Others are shared across many spaces. Both can be honest, committed, and real. Belonging that lasts doesn’t disappear when someone’s capacity shifts. It adapts. It trusts. It doesn’t keep score. I don’t have neat answers — just questions I think are worth asking as more of us try to build communities that value people, not just output. What does meaningful support look like to you, beyond numbers?

For the second time in Goosify history we have a DOUBLE RAINBOW! It's amazing to see all the ways this community is growing! Congratulations @Angelika Vetter! You are amazing and you absolutely deserve this! Even when she's not blitzing, she's still crushing it!

Its honestly dope to see how Wingman progresses week by week. I remember when things were waaaaay more confusing (and tbh I kinda just purchased because I liked Goose and Goosify lol) but I'm starting to notice a shift as this tool is becoming a legitimate must have for my skool community! Also you guys COOKED on the "suggested next steps" button (...wow) 🏆 I will begin to implement ALL suggestions ASAP because its actually spot on! 🎯 THANKS WINGMAN!! 💙💚

ive decided that this 2026 is gonna be BIGGER than 2025. WAY BIGGER i hope ur with me on this one too. And you can set the tone with me for 2026... And come out the the gates with a BANG. For the 1st time in over 1 year i will offer coaching again. But just once, and for 48 hrs. and i heard you. so it will be cheaper than ever before. srsly if you miss this its ur own fault Also a MASSIVE update to wingman will drop early jan, the biggest one yet. i mean it. that will change the way u grow skool communities. Wingman officially becomes the (MUCH SIMPLER) GHL for skool. Mark ur cats

Down to 192 on discover and 17 members today - Not to mention waking up with an Eggplant! (Wow, that came out wrong). 😉 Goal is 25 members by the end of the month. This whole experience has been so much fun - Thank you @Rositsa Aleksandrova for inviting me over and to my partner in the Blitz @Zarko Nikolic Keep it going!