Asalamalaykum sisters, My name is Kulsum, and I’m based in the States. I’m in my early 30s, and most of my friends are around the same age. We’re all doing well in different aspects of life—except when it comes to marriage (though, of course, everything is by Allah’s will). Lately, I’ve been trying to understand and process something that’s been on my mind. Some of my friends have started discussing the idea of freezing our eggs before marriage, given the uncertainty around finding the right person and the risk of declining fertility as we age. When I mentioned this to my mom and sister, they said it shows a lack of trust in Allah and that I’m being negative about the future. I’m wondering—does considering egg freezing really mean I don’t trust Allah, or am I just overthinking things?

Assalaam Alaikum sisters, i hope you're all well. I have a question I am hoping you'll be able to help with: When you match with someone on the apps what initial questions do you ask? JazakAllah Khairan

The wrong man doesn’t always look wrong. He might pray. He might have a good job. He might come from a respected family. And yet… something still feels off. In this episode, we talk about the three subtle but dangerous patterns the wrong man always shows — patterns that don’t scream red flags, but quietly cost women years of their life if they’re ignored. This isn’t about being picky. It’s about being clear. If you’ve ever felt confused, anxious, or unsure while talking to someone — especially when everyone else says “he looks good on paper” — this conversation will help you name what your gut has been trying to tell you. In this episode, you’ll learn: • Why words without action are a deal breaker • How boundary testing shows up (and why it’s so easy to miss) • Why hot-and-cold behavior creates attachment and anxiety • The difference between consistency and chemistry • What the right man does differently — from the very beginning You’ll also hear real examples of how these patterns play out, why they don’t improve after marriage, and how to walk away without guilt or second-guessing.

Assalāmu ʿalaykunna dear sisters 🤍 MM shared this video with me to post here for you all, as she’s currently unable to do so herself. At the bottom of this post, you’ll find the link MM mentioned in the video. Please keep her in your duʿāʾ for a smooth recovery and complete shifāʾ 🤲 Link to form https://forms.gle/jG3uaupzF2C7v5Tz7

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