So today was supposed to go one way… and it went another. Heading to Toronto to honour my middle child (you know - the difficult one!! ) because she’s graduating from the University of Toronto. It’s my dad’s alma mater. He’s not here to see it, but he would be so incredibly proud of her. But stressed because of a lot of different things going on. Spending the weekend with my ex and his girlfriend and his family… a celebration hosted by their family. It takes me out of my comfort zone because I like to be the host, especially for something that honors my daughter. I get along with these people so well, I’ve known them for 40 years, but still… But grateful to have Billy by my side. We make everything fun! I had everything ready to bake - a ton of things for these celebration events, we were driving up, and I wanted to contribute. I was organized within an inch of my life. I even made sub buns to pack a lunch for our drive to Toronto. Then when we woke up… The cat was sick again. He literally did not move for five hours. We’re in crisis mode thinking what are we gonna do? Do we bring him with us? Do we leave him with a 17-year-old boy who’s our cat sitter? Like what do we do? If the end is nigh, should we leave him? Soooooo Billy uses his credit card points to buy me a ticket to Toronto, and off I go for the whirlwind weekend to celebrate my daughter, solo. Not at all what we had envisioned. And I sit at the airport waiting feeling completely defeated. You see, my daughter has lots of family around her dad is there. I’m there, and Billy - well he’s kind of peripheral. But I love that. He’s excited to be there. He’s the only one who hasn’t seen her apartment in Toronto, and he was really looking forward to that. That type of thing just makes me feel warm and fuzzy. But the truth of the matter is this isn’t about me. This is about my daughter, Paris. Her accomplishment from one of the top universities in the world. It’s been a rough four years for her. She had lots of ups and downs; things I don’t even wanna mention. So it’s an accomplishment that she made this far. And I have to put my personal feelings aside to remember that this is about her and not me.

Brand new video… Cooking en famille ❤️ This is the first introductory lesson in my “Takeout to Real Meals in 30 Days” program! https://drive.google.com/file/d/1cG8ESjJkqeWIhz36n1DrSly_tXEUaF7D/view?usp=drivesdk

Let’s just say borrowed it… From Mel Robbins! “Relationships are so much more than just love. It’s about finding someone who motivates you, supports you, pushes you to be better, and brings out the best version of YOU ❤️”

Coming up in a little over an hour, anyone who’s around is welcome to drop in! Today’s call will be 45 minutes as I have another commit commitment right afterwards. See you soon!

Tonight I am going to make some Singapore noodles for dinner. I'll be honest with you, I just call them the pork Asian noodle things, because in my opinion they're nothing like Singapore noodles, which have curry and I love them. The cookbook I originally found them in years ago called them Singapore noodles. So I'm making some pork Asian noodle things for dinner in about half an hour. I'll see you then! As always, they will be recorded, so I'll pop the recording in as soon as I'm done.