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1 contribution to 💎 Lead Yourself
🫀Stop monitoring yourself for other people.
Monitoring how you speak, how you move, what you say. Wondering if you’re too much, too weird, or if they approve of you. To conform. To be validated. It’s a waste of your energy. And nobody wins. Not them, and definitely not you. You won’t feel alive when you’re busy watching yourself and overthinking every move. Be weird. Be a little crazy. Let them think what they want. You’re here to live your life, not to perform a version of yourself that keeps everyone else comfortable. 🌹بطّل تراقب في روحك على خاطر الناس. كيفاش تحكي، كيفاش تتحرّك، وشنوّة تقول… وتبقى تسأل في روحك: هل أنا زايدة؟ غريبة؟ هل عجبهم تصرّفي؟ باش تتأقلم. باش يرضاو عليك. باش يقبلو بيك. هذا الكلّ يستنزف طاقتك. وفي الآخر، حتى حدّ ما يربح. لا هما، وبالأخص إنت. ماكش باش تحسّ روحك حيّة وإنت مشغولة بمراقبة روحك وتحليل كل حركة. كون غريبة. كون شوية مجنونة. خليهم يفكّروا اللي يحبّوا. إنت هنا باش تعيش حياتك، موش باش تمثّل نسخة منك تخلي الناس الكلّ مرتاحة.
🫀Stop monitoring yourself for other people.
1 like • 20d
I used to live so stressed worrying if im doing something wrong, causing pain, and even worrying about if my voice tone is respectful enough, yes it’s so embarrassing that i was thinking like this, i used to be so scared to the point i adjust my voice tone just to avoid trouble, even if i’m not doing anything wrong, but now i’m not anymore, the rule is; if i’m not causing any problems or disrespect, i will NOT feel worried about if they’re satisfied or not, and idgaf if they are pissed off, thats THEIR own problem that they have to deal with, it’s never my responsibility.
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Khaled Guesbaya
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Computer visuals Student & Languages learner

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