I used to live so stressed worrying if im doing something wrong, causing pain, and even worrying about if my voice tone is respectful enough, yes it’s so embarrassing that i was thinking like this, i used to be so scared to the point i adjust my voice tone just to avoid trouble, even if i’m not doing anything wrong, but now i’m not anymore, the rule is; if i’m not causing any problems or disrespect, i will NOT feel worried about if they’re satisfied or not, and idgaf if they are pissed off, thats THEIR own problem that they have to deal with, it’s never my responsibility.