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=== shared from someone I follow on Fb. I resonate a lot with this. What are your thoughts? === Quote> 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐈 𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝟏𝟏 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐀𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐒𝐞𝐱, 𝐒𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐄𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲 About 15 years ago, I became single after a two-decade marriage. I stepped out into the dating world with one goal... to learn myself. Not just in a surface-level, “What do I like in a partner?” kind of way, but in the deepest, rawest sense. I wanted to learn about my sensuality. My sexuality. My orgasm. What turned me on. What turned me off. What it even meant to feel fully expressed as a woman, as a sexual being. And so, I explored. I moved through relationships, through moments, through desire. In the years that followed, I engaged in integrity-based open relating, meaning that every connection I formed was rooted in honesty, consent, and mutual respect. I had eleven lovers during that time. I was having tons of sex, more than I had ever had in my life—and I was learning exactly what I had set out to learn. But here’s what I didn’t expect; the most profound lessons weren’t just about my body, my pleasure, or even my attraction to others. The real awakening was about energy. About power. About creation. I started to see sex differently, not just as an act between two people but as an exchange of energy, a reflection of self, and a spiritual force that goes far beyond the bedroom. Some relationships revealed their energetic dynamics instantly, while others took months, even years, for me to understand why they had entered my life. Sex, as I had been taught to understand it, was too small a concept. It had been boxed into pleasure, performance, and physicality. But true sex positivity isn’t just about having more sex, it’s about understanding the energy behind it. It’s about recognizing how sex influences, creates, and transforms. In today’s world, the phrase “sex-positive” has been hijacked to mean “do whatever you want, as much as you want, with whoever you want.” It’s often portrayed as a movement that encourages sexual freedom through sheer volume. more partners, fewer inhibitions, complete detachment from deeper meaning.

Marriage isn’t meant to be boring or mundane—it’s meant to be full of connection, fun, and passion. And one of the easiest ways to keep that spark alive? Flirting. Flirting with your spouse isn’t just playful—it’s powerful. It’s a way to remind them (and yourself) of the desire that brought you together in the first place. It’s about keeping the dynamic fresh, exciting, and full of life, no matter how long you’ve been together. A simple wink, a cheeky smile, or a suggestive comment can completely change the tone of your day. Whisper something in their ear when no one’s looking. Slide a playful note into their pocket. Text them something spicy in the middle of the day. These little moments build anticipation, remind your partner how much they’re desired, and keep things far from routine. It doesn’t have to be elaborate—sometimes it’s just the way you look at them from across the room or the way you casually brush by them with intention. These small acts send a big message: “I still see you. I still want you. And I’m still crazy about you.” Life can be stressful, routines can be demanding, and it’s easy to fall into autopilot. But creating an adventurous, flirtatious dynamic adds energy, fun, and intimacy to your marriage. It turns the ordinary into extraordinary and keeps you both excited about the connection you share. So don’t hold back. Tease a little, laugh a lot, and let them know they’re still the one who lights your fire. Flirting isn’t just for new couples—it’s the secret sauce to staying passionately connected for life.

Are you stuck in cycles of pain or blame? It’s easy to get trapped, but recognizing these patterns is the first step to freedom. Here’s what you need to know: 🌪 Addiction to Trauma • Trauma can feel familiar, even comfortable, creating a dependency on chaos. • Stress hormones like adrenaline and cortisol can make the “drama” feel addictive. • Without healing, some seek relationships or situations that mirror past pain. 💔 The Damage of Blame • Blaming others erodes trust, creates isolation, and leaves you feeling powerless. • It fosters a victim mentality, keeping you stuck in negativity and emotional instability. • You lose the opportunity to grow, build resilience, and take control of your life. ✨ The Power of Personal Responsibility • Taking ownership of your actions empowers growth and emotional stability. • It builds trust, reduces conflict, and strengthens your relationships. • Responsibility fosters independence, self-worth, and a solution-focused mindset. 💡 Ask Yourself: • Am I stuck in cycles of blaming others or reliving past pain? • How can I take responsibility for my emotions and actions moving forward? Healing starts with YOU. When you stop blaming and start owning your story, you regain control of your life and open the door to healthier relationships and deeper peace. Are you ready to take that step? Let us know in the comments! 🌟 #HealingJourney #PersonalResponsibility #BreakTheCycle

Hey friends, my name is Abigail and I am from Montana although currently doing missions in Cambodia. 🌴 I am hoping to get more life skills, relationship mentorship, and leadership training from this platform. I love being a missionary and playing piano and discipling youth, and a fun fact about myself is that I love Asia and am passionate about people expanding their knowledge of cultures.