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41 contributions to Society of Ordinary Gentlemen
Brutal Secert
I'll be honest my new favorite outfit was inspired by an expat still working on getting the sleeves shorten on a cuff shirt since they're a bit too long. Although there's plenty of room for improvement such as tailoring the suit and getting a darker shade of burgundy on my knit since I like my reds to be more muted, still I think it looks great especially with my quarter brogue black oxfords which I love even tho they're not seen on here. tell me in the comments on who wore it better lol and if I should make a post detailing on my personal philosophy, which I think would be an interesting post to write.
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This setup is probably inspired by 80s or something I'm feeling like I saw this type of outfit before...so do James.
Leading a notebook as a life-changing habbit
Hello, Ladies and Gentleman, this post will be about how one simple decision for your own good can change your lifestyle. About notebooks, I have two, one standard A5 for my thoughts, written in my room. The second notebook is smaller, it's for the same purpose, but during work (especially night shifts) or traveling. Everything started four months ago, when I started my white collar job. I was excited at the beginning, but for a time I was getting more and more stressed, exhausted, making mistakes and feeling of pressure led me to bad habits from the past, like porn. Also, I just started drinking alcohol, not like drinking to death, but by buying myself a beer, or just drinking alcohol from home storage, hiding it from my parents. I was feeling bad and depressed. I don't know any 20 yo in my area who went to weekend university and got a job at the same time. I'm always the one who provides maturity and wisdom in my friends group. A lot of bad events were just escalating, like multiple rejections, delayed promotion. Only one thing that's holding me to this day (by inspiration) is the Mad Men series. The character of Don Draper just persuaded me to try wearing a suits without vests, which new style made good impression on my peers at university (especially ladies). I even bought a fedora. During one episode, the protagonist started leading a journal, that made me into writing my thoughts, feelings, everything I has in my head at any moment. This idea was great shot, my written thoughts lead me to stop feeling bad, expressing my thoughts, that lead me into into idea trying to get rid of stress instead of fighting with addictions (cause they start to dissapear with stress), which lead me to succesful pushing forward, rejected my over-working routine I had before, for caring about my skin, diet, habbits and sleep, even finding more outfit inspirations from what I have. That's how one habbit lead to change way of my thinking and living. Cheers
Silence Is Power
Good afternoon ladies and gentlemen, These are times that I found ,it’s better to remain silent about things, then there are times when I felt I need to speak up and say something. The difficult things is knowing when to speak up and when to remain silent. Silence is powerful, but there are moments when speaking up is essential Stoicism teaches restraint not weakness. Speaking loud or constantly does not necessarily make you noticed or popular. But there are some key facts that indicate when you need to speak up. Here are five times that you should break your silence. 1. When facing injustice; staying silent allows the wrongs to continue, speak up with courage. 2. When your boundaries are crossed; if you don’t defend yourself, others will keep pushing your boundaries. 3. When truth must be spoken; lies thrive in silence, truth demands a voice. 4. When someone needs guidance; our wisdom can change lives, don’t hold it back. 5. When silence is manipulation; don’t let others use silence to control you,Take charge.
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That's why I speak so rarely and mostly about my Stories with ladies or outfits
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@Al Voss @Sage Knaus @Jason Rochester @Anthony Buntyn @Stephen Arnold For everyone who read, I appreciate your good words. Before date I had 2 hours, so I went for coffee to fix my energy and mood. I invited her to folk-fantasy restaurant in Kraków, where they have their own currency, which make you pay less , we ordered two ,,Elixirs" which are drinks you make by yourself, including using smoking ice. Talk with her was very calming and charming from my Side, there was nothing wrong, that was my first date in this year, after drinks we went on walk, but apparently she needed to come back because of suprising reason, but we meet tomorrow at lectures. By the way, I Hope you saw my new Fedora. Now I take inspirations from 50/60 thanks to Mad Men series. What do you think ?
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@Al Voss hahah you mean you suggest me to wear a Cap that I have ? I mean I like my cap but it wont fit for most of my outfits, Fedora makes new possibilities for Outfits.
Ties
I inherited grandfathers and fathers little collection of ties. Any suggestion for the gentleman from those photos ? (1st - friends birthday, 2nd - workplace Outfit, 3rd - something more casual, aka experiment with 60s).
Ties
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@Jason Rochester i've started watching ties playlist on their Channel. For now I've started to correct mistakes.
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@Xander Rude If we talk about my collection, I really didn't focused that much of memories from wearing Them, more cared about fitting to situation, particular style I wanted to achieve etc. For example One ties I wear for Job, but another one outside of job, and one for special ocassions.
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