Kian goes to group training sessions weekly at a place who also have teams in the league which work closely with a local premier league club Kian was asked numerous times at u6 if he wanted to play for their team but Kian flat out refused he just wanted to play football with his friends and I get that and that’s what he does and continues to do all be it in a lower league than he should be in but he is happy Last week the lady who runs this other teams league sat and watched Kian at training and approached my husband saying they had a match lined up with the u8’s team for the premier league club (who my husband supports!) they would love it if Kian could come be in goal for them they think he deserves the opportunity to be seen. My husband immediately agreed and couldn’t wait to tell me My dilemma … The u8’s team has a gk and Kian trains with him at the group sessions and I often chat to his mum who is lovely, I said oh their gk must not be available my hubby said yeah he is they just want Kian for this match I am not feeling really guilty like we should have said no and pull out The mum of their gk speaks so highly of Kian and often tells her son in group training to watch Kian so I think she knows he is a better keeper but it still isn’t sitting right with me