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Most men over 40 are sabotaging their training
Most men over 40 are sabotaging their training and they don't even know it. Not in the gym. Outside of it. You can train perfectly five days a week. Right weight, right form, right mind-muscle connection. But if you're going to bed at midnight, eating junk between meals, and running on stress with no outlet, you are working against yourself every single session. Recovery is where the muscle gets built. The gym is just the stimulus. I protect my sleep like it's a business asset. Phone down early. Eyes covered. Mouth taped. I look ridiculous, and I wake up recovered. That's the trade I'll take every time. I cut out the seed oils, the alcohol, the processed junk. Not because I'm obsessed with being perfect. Because I know exactly what those things do to my recovery, my inflammation, and my hormones. The data doesn't lie. You want to know why some men in their 50s and 60s look and move better than guys in their 30s? It's not genetics. It's what they do between workouts. The gym is 20% of this. The other 80% is how you live. What's the one thing outside the gym you know you need to fix but keep putting off? Drop it below. 👇
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I’ve been reading about the mouth tape and think it might help me. What kind do you use?
Week 1 5 Day Premium Month 2 Completed
Just finished Day 5 of the first week of premium month 2. Challenging and invigorating. Got a shoulder impingement last July and this system has fixed it. Light weight, high reps, more sets, controlled lifting with the mind-muscle focus flat out works.
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@Brent Cramer Thanks!
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@Keith Hanenian Esq You led the way, Sir!
The first step
In my late 40s, I looked in the mirror and didn't recognize the man looking back at me. Overweight. Exhausted. No discipline. No standards. I was a successful attorney. I had built a career, a life, everything on the outside looked fine. But physically? I had let myself go. And I knew it. That morning I made a decision. No more negotiating with myself. No more waiting for the right time. I started with one workout. One clean meal. One better decision. 50 pounds later, I'm 61 years old and in the best shape of my life. I'm not telling you that to impress you. I'm telling you because most men in this community are somewhere in that story right now, either at the bottom, or climbing back up. Both are valid. Both are Built Different. What was the moment you decided enough was enough, and what did that first step look like for you? Drop it in the comments. 👇
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Even when I was overweight I’d lift and my arms always had some muscle on them, but over a year ago after I quit lifting, I squeezed my arms and they felt like plastic bags full of cottage cheese. I was so disgusted with myself I went straight to the gym. Sadly I overdid it and got hurt a few times lifting too heavy. Then I found Keith!
What's the hardest period of your life you kept training through?
Most men drop their training standards the moment life gets hard. Work pressure hits. Family needs more of you. You're tired. And the gym becomes the first thing you cut. I get it. I've been there. But here's what I've learned after 45 years of training, the days you don't want to show up are exactly the days you need to. That consistency is the standard. Not the motivation. The standard. At the end of the day, the men in this community didn't get here by going easy on themselves when things got tough. What's the hardest period of your life you kept training through, and what kept you going? Drop it below. 👇
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@Martins Kesha Glad you joined. Been here awhile.
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@Clayton Holcombe That’s so rough. My dad is 90 and has dementia and my mom is 85 and in great shape and it’s still a heavy load. Bless you man.
WINS & DISCIPLINE deserve REWARDS
Another nutrition WIN today! My nutrition discipline has been rock solid all year. No “cheating” ALL YEAR. Reward Day I haven’t had ice cream in probably 12 months. I had room left in my calorie budget today and, being Mother’s Day, went with my wife to DQ. Peanut Butter Blizzard (technically not ice cream lol). The cherry on top wasn’t on the Blizzard. It was the fact that I only ate 3/4 of the Blizzard to remain within my acceptable Macro Targets. Again, didn’t plan this, just worked out. I showed myself something today. I can treat myself and still stay disciplined and not run into problems. I showed myself that I have changed a part of my identity. Proper nutrition isn’t a habit anymore, it’s just me now, and I have never been able to say that before.
WINS & DISCIPLINE deserve REWARDS
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You are kicking butt!
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John Hicks
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