Good morning gentlemen, I know I have not posted much lately due to being under the weather and then the playing catch up before the holidays ( Lost my flame 😡). but what I want to remind all of us, that as gentlemen what must be strategic and calculated in everything that we do. I know this might seem silly but this is a vital component in our DNA as gentlemen. The more that we plan everything we do the more efficient and the more deliberate we are in everything that we do. When we do this we not only look like we know what we are doing, but we look like we have authority and are in control of everything that we do. this is very important when you are in a new environment, or meeting new people, you want to look like you are confident, in control and that you know what you are discussing, where you are going, and who you are engaged with. Yes there are going to be times that you do not have a clue what you are doing, where you are gong, or trying to get to, but if you look confident rather than confused you can ask for help or directions without seeming like a person in distress, of a potential victim. the key to this is to remain calm, think about what you are doing or attempting to do, and if for some reason it does not go as planned, don’t panic; step back, regroup and formulate another plan. Most of the time you will mess up and the only person that knows is you until you bring it to everyone’s attention. Gentlemen when we fail to plan, we plan to fail.