Hi lovelies, I wanted to share something I learned from my own elegance journey that may help you on yours. Becoming elegant will make it clearer to you where you don't belong. You'll find yourself outgrowing certain rooms, environments, people, and roles. These things will quietly drain you through noise/chaos, lack of beauty, emotional roughness, etc.... until staying begins to feel unbearable. Sometimes the most elegant thing you can do is adapt externally while protecting your inner world: Be discerning instead of judging yourself. Say less. Keep your circle small. Hold your inner standard. Preserve whatever touch points with beauty you may have. Sometimes we may think that we are the ones who need to be "fixed" or "improved" when really it's about the structures or the environments that need to change. Just food for thought! xx

Hi lovelies 🎀 My name is Jessica and I am the founder of Essentialist Method. Originally, my business started as a biohacking coaching program to help women reveal their body's natural proportions. It has since then evolved into a private identity refinement atelier for women who are on a journey of self-discovery and self-mastery. I am currently based in Texas, but I have lived all over (New York, California, Copenhagen, Palm Beach). I found Leyla on TikTok and was so impressed with her feminine elegance and strategic mind–and at such a young age. I am in the midst of a personal rebrand myself. A few months ago, I had to literally cut off all my hair after a series of three bad haircuts. This had severely impacted my confidence and I have really stayed hidden and isolated most of this year. Only recently have I started to see it as a symbol of a complete "rebirth," so to speak. My goal in joining this community is to reconnect with my femininity (despite losing my hair) and also to develop new friendships. I am looking at myself as a clean slate–style-wise etc. and I am rebuilding myself, brick-by-brick.

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Hey girls, Let me know under this post when your birthdays are! I need it for secret (gifting) reasons hehe!🥰

My name is Emilia, and I’m originally from the Netherlands. I currently live in Belgium, where I’m a high school student. I speak Dutch, Russian, and French. From what I’ve seen, I’m very inspired by you all and excited to be part of this community! 💞