I started ADHD Success for Men 40+ because I couldn't find a space that reflected my reality. I see a lot of content about "superpowers" and "hacks," but not enough about the reality of navigating a career, a marriage, and fatherhood when your brain is wired differently. As a counselor (and a man who wasn't diagnosed until 38), I wanted to build a "no fluff" zone. We focus on the "Balance"—managing the anxiety and the chaos without losing your edge. If you are a man over 40 looking for success without the burnout, come check us out. https://www.skool.com/adhd-success-for-men-40-9919/about?ref=43dc4c8a678e40739648f7d26cd73335

I spent 20 minutes sitting in my car yesterday after I pulled into the driveway. Engine off, lights off, just staring at the garage door. ​I knew my wife and kids were on the other side of that door. I knew there was dinner to make, homework to help with, and "Dad" duties to perform. But I was absolutely empty. ​I’d spent the last 9 hours "masking"—nodding in meetings I couldn't focus on, triple-checking emails so I didn't look careless, and forcing my brain to act "normal." It’s a special kind of exhaustion that hits when you're 40+ and realize you’ve been running this marathon for decades without even knowing you were wearing lead boots. ​The hardest part isn't the work itself; it's the guilt of having nothing left for the people who matter most because I spent all my "functional" energy just trying to survive the office. ​I used to think I was just lazy or a bad husband. Turns out, my brain just processes the world at a different frequency, and I never had the right manual for it. ​Anyone else find themselves sitting in the car a little longer these days just to find the "on" switch one more time? ​I’m building a small corner of the internet for guys like us (40+, ADHD, trying to find some balance). If you’re tired of sitting in the car alone, you’re welcome to come hang out with us. No gurus, just guys figuring it out together. ​Join us here: ADHD Success for Men 40+

Let’s go guys!! Everyone advertise your communities in the comments!!🚀🔥 Let’s go!! When one of us wins, we all win!!💪⭐️

1️⃣ Turn members into the teachers💪 Once a week, spotlight a member and ask them to share one lesson, win, or mistake they’ve learned. When members teach, they lean in harder and others feel safer to speak up too.🙌 2️⃣ End posts with a choice, not a question!🖖 Instead of “What do you think?”, use: 👉 A or B? 👉 Agree or disagree? 👉 Would you do this or avoid it? Decisions spark faster replies than open-ended questions.❤️ I hope these help guys! When one of us wins, we all win!💪❤️

Tonight’s thought provoking question is going to give me chills…👀 What is the closest YOU have ever come to death?😬 ⚰️