Don't get me wrong, I still react, snap, worry, even freak out at times.... Humans do that. Annndd I have spent my lifetime gaining experiences and the last 25+ years working as a licensed therapist assisting all types of people with all types of situations. The common thread is knowing how your brain and nervous system work so you can have more say in how you want to choose to walk through life vs. being at the mercy of your thoughts and nervous system. React to life or Respond to life - you get to choose. Come join us in Enjoy Being Human where we talk about real life, the beautiful and messy complexities of it and build our toolboxes to manage whatever comes our way. Would love to have you along for the adventure with us. https://www.skool.com/enjoy-being-human/about

Enjoy Being Human is a community for people who want to understand themselves better, struggle less, and learn practical skills for being human. 😎 Life will life and the brain will brain, I say.... Welcome to Earth. 🌎 In Enjoy Being Human, we talk about it all. July we were **Learning About Discomfort** 😣 August we've been spending the month admiring and enjoying this whole being-human thing. ✨ September: back-to-school time. **Tiny Experiments.** ✏️ Class is in session starting 9/1. (Don't worry. There are no grades, you can never be considered tardy, and no one gets sent to detention.) **Sunday Lives** are where we dig into how your brain and nervous system work so you can understand yourself better and have more say in how you navigate your life. And the **Classroom? There's a LOT in there.** That's intentional. 😊 Life is not step 1, 2, 3. You aren't supposed to do everything or go in order. Life gives us a lot to navigate on the daily so this is a safe place to practice looking around, settling the overwhelm, and choosing one thing that feels useful to you in the moment. I'm Ahmy. I'm a Life Guide, Licensed Therapist, brain nerd, science lover, working intuitive and channel. I'm also goofy, a little sassy, and have spent a whole lot of years figuring out how to struggle less with being human myself. If you're struggling through life and would like some practical skills that can help you struggle less... **Come join us! 💞** Would love to have you practicing human stuff alongside us. skool.com/enjoy-being-human/about

Your members aren't lazy. Your niche isn't wrong. Your community feels quiet because it was designed for a topic, not for people. There's a distinction social psychologists call 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗼𝗻 𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘂𝘀 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗼𝗻 𝗯𝗼𝗻𝗱. Common identity is attachment to what the group is about. Common bond is attachment to the actual people inside it. Topic-first design brings people in. People-first design makes them stay. A community that's 100% tutorials and coursework is a library. Libraries don't build loyalty. The second mistake is what I call an extractive vulnerability tax. You ask a new member to introduce themselves, share their goal, name their biggest struggle. Their brain runs a cost-benefit. They pay the emotional cost. They get silence, or a generic "Welcome!" They won't do it again. 𝗥𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗰𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗶𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗼𝗽𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗶𝗻 𝗵𝘂𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗮𝗰𝘆 🧠 it's the whole mechanism. If you want members to open up, someone who actually leads the community has to go first, and a real person has to respond when someone does. The third one is where a lot of thoughtful builders still get caught: starting members at zero. If your onboarding drops someone at Level 1 with zero points, the climb looks impossible and motivation flatlines before it starts. Behavioural science has a name for the opposite effect: the goal-gradient. Effort accelerates as people perceive themselves getting closer to a goal. So you don't leave them sitting at zero. Have someone like their first comment, whatever they show up with, and they've already got their first points before the day is out. 𝗖𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮 𝗹𝗼𝗼𝗽 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝘀 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝗻 𝗼𝗽𝗲𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝗻𝗲. That's just how the brain works. Three different problems. Same outcome: a quiet feed and a founder posting hype questions to themselves. This is exactly the kind of thing we pull apart inside Skooligans. Follow the link and come sit with people building the same fixes. Which of these is the one you're actively fighting right now? https://www.skool.com/skooligans/about?ref=43dc4c8a678e40739648f7d26cd73335

It might need a better reason for the members you already have to come back. That's something we've been thinking about a LOT lately. Because getting someone to click JOIN is one win. Getting them to think... "I want to go see what's happening in there." ...is a completely different one. And that second win has very little to do with posting more just to keep the feed busy. It comes from designing a community where people know: → why they're there → what they can do next → where they belong → and what progress actually looks like That's the kind of stuff we're a little obsessed with inside Skoolology. We're not trying to build the biggest community-building community. We're trying to get really good at understanding what makes a community worth coming back to. And we're learning a heck of a lot from the builders doing it alongside us. 🐼 If you're building a Skool community and sometimes wonder, "Okay... but how do I make this thing actually WORK?" Come hang out with us. You might be our kind of builder. https://www.skool.com/skoolology/about

She couldn’t understand why she felt so stuck. She loved Jesus Christ. She prayed every day. She served faithfully. She encouraged everyone around her. Yet every time she looked in the mirror, she saw a woman who had stopped believing in herself. She buried her dreams beneath responsibilities, convinced herself it was “too late,” and quietly accepted a life that felt much smaller than the vision God had placed in her heart. She smiled on the outside, but inside she was asking, “Lord, is this really all there is?” Then she discovered something that changed everything: God never intended for His daughters to walk alone. Healing grows in community. Confidence grows through obedience. Purpose becomes clear when you’re surrounded by women who pray for you, challenge you, encourage you, and remind you of God’s truth when your fears try to speak louder. As she healed emotionally and renewed her mind with God’s Word, she stopped seeing herself through the lens of her past and started seeing herself through the promises of God. The woman she thought she had lost was still there—she simply needed the right environment to grow. That’s why Glory Nation Academy exists. It’s a place where women discover their identity in Jesus Christ, heal from yesterday, strengthen their faith, uncover their God-given purpose, build confidence, and receive the encouragement and accountability to finally move forward. If you’re tired of feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of what’s next, don’t spend another year wondering what your life could have been. Join a community of women who are choosing faith over fear, purpose over procrastination, and growth over comfort. Your breakthrough may begin with one simple decision: saying yes to the woman God created you to become. https://www.skool.com/glory-nation-academy-7312/about