Lately, I’ve been thinking about how becoming feels a lot like a game of chess. ♟️ Every move matters. Every decision has consequences. And sometimes the move that looks good in the moment can cost you something valuable later. I’m realizing that growth isn’t always about making the next move. Sometimes it’s about sitting still long enough to understand what’s in front of you. Not every opportunity deserves a yes. Not every situation requires a reaction. And not every person deserves access to the woman you’re becoming. I’m learning that I can’t keep making permanent decisions based on temporary emotions. Some moves require patience. Others require sacrifice. And some require the wisdom to recognize that what’s being offered isn’t worth what it could cost me. Becoming is teaching me to move with discernment, not emotion. Because I’m not just making decisions for the woman I am today. I’m making decisions that will impact the woman I’m becoming and the two little girls watching me become her. 🤍 Here’s a question for my fellow Pushers: Are you learning when to make your next move, or when to sit still and let things unfold?

"You don' t have to feel 100%, but you have to give it 100%!"💯💯~ Motivation App

I’m raising my daughters while God is still growing me. Some days, that growth requires an apology and the humility to admit my reaction came from something deeper. My children didn’t create my wounds, but my willingness to face them will shape how they experience my love. I’m still becoming and taking responsibility is part of that journey. 🤍

We rush to get to the next chapter because the space between “no longer” and “not yet” feels uncomfortable. But that space isn’t empty, it’s where healing, preparation, clarity, and growth happen. Don’t rush the transition. Don’t despise the waiting. There is purpose in who you’re becoming before you arrive at where you’re going. Let God cook 🧑‍🍳 and KEEP PUSHING.

This week, I published two posts on Substack, created my Lovable page, continued working on my non-profit organization, and participated on the Testimony Thursday call. One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned over these eight weeks is the importance of putting yourself in the right circles and surrounding yourself with the right community. Still thankful and still grateful to be a Purpose Pusher! 💪🏾