Hey friends, I’d love to hear where you're at on your dating journey right now. Whether you’re in the 30-Day Re-Entry program (Premium fam 👋), or you’re here exploring and feeling it out — we’re all moving forward together, in our own ways. Which one feels most true for you this week? PS. Those of you who are Premium members, make sure to check out the Online Dating Essentials Kit in the Classroom. Many of your questions will be answered there. Pic of resources is attached.

Happy New Year everyone, and thank you for being part of this community. One of the most powerful things we can do together is encourage each other, champion progress, and hold one another accountable for our actions in a positive way. With that in mind, I would love to hear your New Year’s resolutions. (Something within your control). It can be something simple. Spending less time on your phone. Losing ten pounds. Drinking more water. Taking more trips. Healing a tender wound. Asking more people to a coffee. Updating your profile. Whatever it is, please feel free to share it.

If you are doing the 30-Day Dating Re-entry in January, this question is for you. If not, you can still answer the prompt: Reframe one belief about Online Dating. Finish this sentence honestly, or come up with your own. “Online dating doesn’t have to be __________________________ for me this time.”

Hi everyone, I hope you all had a great week. Part of the work involved in finding your soul-aligned person is knowing your WHY. Not just the obvious surface level why, but the deeper, subconscious why. Take a journal or notepad and write the answers to the questions below. Take your time with this. Find a quiet spot when you have 10 minutes to yourself and write freely. No editing. No “shoulds". 1. Why do I want a partner? Beyond companionship or not wanting to be alone, what is the deeper reason? What emotional, relational, or life experience am I craving that I can’t create in the same way on my own? 2. What would actually change in my day-to-day life if I had a healthy, aligned partner? Be specific. How would my mornings, evenings, weekends, decisions, or sense of steadiness feel different? What would be easier, richer, or more meaningful? 3. Who would I become in partnership that I’m not fully expressing right now? What parts of me come alive when I’m sharing life with someone: emotionally, creatively, relationally, spiritually? What version of myself is waiting for that container? 4. How would being in a good partnership impact the people around me? How might I show up differently for my children, friends, family, colleagues, or community? What ripple effects would this relationship have beyond just me? 5. Why does this matter to me now? Why is this chapter of life calling for partnership? What feels complete, ready, or aligned about pursuing this at this stage—not earlier, not later? 6. When dating feels hard, slow, or disappointing, what deeper “why” will keep me motivated? When I’m tempted to quit, numb out, or settle...what truth do I want to remember? Finish this sentence: “Even when dating gets uncomfortable, frustrating, exhausting or hopeless, I am willing to stay open to connection because________________________________________________________. Closing Line (write this last): “I am not looking for a partner to fix my life. I am looking for a partner to __________________________.”

I'm nerding out tomorrow at a Skool workshop in NYC for community owners...I've met some of the people there before and they are the best. I love my work and I and love going to "work events" that feel more like a friend's get together than a dull business workshop. 🤩💥🔥