I’m currently reading the book by Jeff borkoski. It’s called better man better marriage. I’m hoping it gives me the instinct to be a natural leader in my marriage. Mark recommended this book on one of his posts on tik tok. Has anyone else read it or have any other suggestions on how to adapt yourself to being a more naturally reliable husband

Hi all, Great to see the numbers growing, to see names and faces I know and a few I don't. I can see men I have coached, men who I know have been considering joining my program, some men currently in the program and some men who have been loyally following my social media over the past 4 months. I'm really grateful to see you all here. As with any online community, the more people share, the more questions they ask and the more they engage, the richer the community we create. Men do incredible things when we collaborate so please contribute as much as you can, whether from a place of strength if you feel you've learned something useful, and especially from a place of uncertainty and even vulnerability. I will be responding to posts, answering questions and directing to helpful resources as much as I can. I will also share insights from our coaching program, the wins and lessons the men who work with me are gaining, and of course encouraging those of you considering staring your own transformation to come and join the group. Finally, you will see that I will be offering a regular free training/webinar at least monthly, possibly more frequently. In these I will go live with important lessons to keep you motivated and on the right path as you work to overcome separation and stop divorce. This was the hardest, most painful period of life, where I frequently lost hope and felt i was carrying the weight alone. It was through communities like this that I got the support and encouragement I needed to keep going. I fully intend to make this community that place for you. Wishing you a good weekend, whatever you are doing and please keep posting... Mark

Welcome everyone. If you’re here, chances are something in your marriage doesn’t feel right. Maybe your wife has pulled away. Maybe she’s talking about separation or divorce. Maybe you’re still living together for the kids but feel like strangers. Maybe you’re barely communicating at all and don’t know what to do next. First thing I want you to know: you’re not weak for being here. Most men don’t reach out until the pain gets loud enough. And for many of us, this is one of the hardest seasons we’ve ever faced. This community exists for one reason:to help men stop destructive patterns, steady themselves, and begin leading differently when their marriage is under threat. This is not a place for wife-bashing, venting, or looking for shortcuts. It's also not therapy, and it’s not a complete coaching program. What it is is a grounded space where men can slow down, get perspective, and learn how to stop making things worse while they work out their next steps. I’ll be present here. I’ll answer questions where I can and I’ll share longer-form free training to help you regulate yourself, handle separation more skillfully, and regain clarity and direction. The focus is always on practical shifts that help you show up calmer, steadier, and more grounded. Many of the men here are dealing with guilt, regret, fear, and uncertainty. Losing daily life with your kids. Losing the woman you love. Feeling like everything you built is slipping away. You don’t need to have it all figured out to be here. All I ask is that you come with honesty, respect, and a willingness to take responsibility for your part of the marriage. To get started, introduce yourself in a post and share: - Where you’re at right now in your marriage - Whether you’re separated, living together, or in limbo - What you’re finding hardest at the moment - What kind of support or clarity you’re hoping for - You don’t need to tell your whole life story. Just enough so we know you’re here and what you’re carrying.