Have you ever felt like your mood is a hostage to what others say or do? We often hand over the remote control of our emotions without realizing it, assuming that other people’s behavior is the direct cause of our discomfort. There is a space between what happens and how you feel: your interpretation. It’s not someone’s silence that hurts you, but the story you tell yourself about that silence. It’s not a criticism that knocks you down, but the value you decide to give it. Instead of saying, “What they said hurt me,” try saying, “I felt bad when I heard that.” By reframing your internal dialogue, you stop being a passive spectator of your crises and become the protagonist of your response. Taking responsibility for how you respond to what happens isn’t a burden—it’s the greatest act of maturity you can exercise. When you become aware of the different meanings you can assign to what others do, you reclaim the control you thought you had lost.

we’ve just added two new lessons that work as a powerful duo: 2.3 The illusion of the “self” 2.4 “Free will”: the truth nobody wants to hear These topics are not abstract philosophy. They challenge some of the most basic assumptions most people carry through life without ever questioning them—ideas about who we are, who is in control, and why we suffer the way we do. Most people get these concepts wrong. And when these foundations are wrong, everything built on top of them—identity, responsibility, guilt, motivation, self-esteem—starts to wobble. Understanding the illusion of the self and the reality behind free will isn’t about becoming cynical or passive. It’s about seeing clearly. And clear seeing is essential for mental health, emotional balance, and living a more honest, less reactive life. If you want to understand life as it actually works—not as we’ve been told it works—this pair of lessons is foundational.

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Hey all, I made this video for you. It’s about risk—not the dramatic, movie-style kind, but the everyday risks we all take whether we notice them or not. The quiet ones. The comfortable ones. The ones we usually don’t question. This video is an invitation to look at risk a bit more honestly, and to think about which risks you’re choosing… and which ones are choosing you. Watch it, and let me know what you think. Did anything resonate? Did anything feel off? Your feedback matters—it helps shape what we build here together.

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